Everyone, thanks so much for your thoughts on this. It's pretty much confirmed what I was thinking. I was wondering if "fag" had achieved the same acceptance status as "queer" but obviously not, and I'm kind of glad. It's so often used in a negative way that it's the last thing you'd want to use on a paysite which is there to turn someone on.
I think another reason why this was bugging me is because it is another example of a big company screwing up the niche. I've seen it plenty of times in the 4women niche so it's almost reassuring in a perverse way to know it's not just me who has to roll my eyes.
Despite my mountains of male content I haven't done gay sites in the past because I was always worried that my language wouldn't be right. Being a straight woman trying to do gay sites is a bit of a hurdle, I thought. But I see by this that my "gaydar" is a little bit on track, if nothing else
Oh, one more thing... where does everybody stand on the word "faghag"?
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