Well I am usually not one for too much social networking (being anti-social, even on the web ), but I found My Blog Log. It is owned by Yahoo, and it seems to have helped increase traffic. They offer some real time results as well for the Pro users.

They have communities and contacts that you can add to help increase your network. Unfortunately they don't allow adult content (hence why I am posting here), but I thought a few of you might like to know. This is my place if any of you would like to join up.

Thanks!