The BDSM Niche

[Bec]

The biggest recommendation I could make on your sites is to keep the het side divided... do NOT mix a femdom site with a femsub site. Absolutely not. Also, with the femsub site, you are best off having no men in the picture (a hand, an arm - but definately no face...) - tie the girl up and shoot her, or have another girl dom her. Straight men who fantasize about sub women are into projecting themselves into the scene.

Ok ... you lost me here. What is FemDom vs FemSub? Is FemSub considered "gay" bdsm niche?

[Bell]

Originally posted by Bec
Ok ... you lost me here. What is FemDom vs FemSub? Is FemSub considered "gay" bdsm niche?

FemDom = Female Dominant
FemSub = no such thing
femsub = female submissive

capitalization and lowercase are important distictions
related to Dominant / submissive



~Bell

[shaun]

Yes - you're right - it is usually fem/sub - though - I am definately the rare FemSub (Beat me NOW! and do it RIGHT this time!)

hehehehe

[Bec]

You wrote it right originially Shaun, I'm the one that errored on the capitials ... thanks Bell, you're right on about when and where to use the upper and lower case, something I definiately need to pay closer attention to with this niche.

[Gary-Alan]

Even though I've been reading as posts were made, I sat back over the weekend and REALLY read through this thread.

This is amazing. A couple of years ago I started to research this but stopped when the FemDom who was explaining things to me fell off the face of the planet.

This has been better than the weeks I spoke with her.

Thanks everyone!

Gary-Alan