Everyone here speaks their mind. What people post on other boards is part of their character and such references are valid and have always been used in board discussions since boards were created. Ironically your post telling us how we should post, and what we should say, is off topic as well. You should take your own advice
Squirt,

You are right, you do have every right to spend your time flaming XXXpornwriter on every thread he posts. I have much more constructive things to do, so feel free to have the last word on this after my post.

Cheers,
Dan