If you have 'em -

... submit your feed url to
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The site will list your site & 5 recent posts in middle, and show as a sidebar link under the directory category, and it then also shows all new posts to all listed blogs on far left column.

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A recip link to Gay XXX Blogs in either case is required.

Thanks!