I once dated a guy who was HIV positive. There was very little limitation on our sex life at all and I learned a lot about the virus and the crap someone goes through to try lead an otherwise normal life.
He told me that when he was getting on with someone and it seemed like there was a connection, when he told them he was HIV positive it was like the music was playing and someone ripped the needle across the record and the music stopped. (we are both old enough to have played music with record players. Look it up on wikipedia kids)
There is so much disinformation about the virus for both those living with it and those of us who are negative but come into contact (sexually, socially, friends, family) with HIV positive guys. With the proper precautions, the virus does not prevent a satisfying sex life as long as all involved know the risks and the proven methods of protection.
The other thread can go on about that rather concerning new study, but I wanted to know what are the feelings of having sex with HIV positive guys? I have no problem with it but I am a condom user.
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