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Humiliating and degrading those females who model for their sites?
http://humantoiletbowls.com
Im just not understanding this at all and, its not a new occurence, its been going on for years.
I really dont understand the apparent dislike for females in the content world by programs or, by surfers.
Regards,
Lee
Most men know at least on some level that they are completely inferior to women in almost every way. They degrade women because they lack self esteem and couldnt get a real date to save their life, it's a way to even the scales and mentally get back at all the women who have shut them down in reality. They can equate the woman with a toilet lid over her head with the woman who laughed in their face and feel a sense of power and control over something that rejects them as useless and inferior.
i've written text for some of those abusive sites. i can write it well because i understand where it's coming from. most men i know think women who are sexually accessible are inferior and deserving of humiliation. and those men feel that sex is the way to punish.
why do you think almost all insults you can give to a woman are related to sexual activity? slut, whore, cocksucker, tramp, bimbo - at least here in the states, the way to insult a woman infers that she has lots of sex, either paid or not paid. and the way to compliment a man is that he does.
most photographers i know (not all) talk about their models the same way in person. making money from them is okay, but BEING a female model makes you a lower life form in their eyes :(
Yeah, it reminds me of my days when I worked for Adult Check, and being told that my writing for the straight niche was way off. I needed to add a lot more words like 'slut,' 'bitch,' 'whore' to sell to the straight male surfers.
I recently was shown a straight site and was really shocked by how offensive it was. It basically showed women from Thailand basically praying to their white men (in a totally offensive way to Thai culture) and the text was 'Thai sluts being raped' and 'Cheap Thai whores,' just really offensive stuff. You see a site like that, and can kind of see why they want to ban porn in these countries.
I really don't enjoy writing text that degrades women, nor do I fully understand the attraction of that with straight men (am I correct that American heteros especially seem to enjoy these kinds of sites?) All I can say is it's good to be gay and away from that kind of thinking. Maybe if some of the big female stars that were being portrayed in a derogatory manner spoke up against it, it would cause the Webmasters to lose money and they wouldn't make such offensive sites.
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i've written text for some of those abusive sites. i can write it well because i understand where it's coming from. most men i know think women who are sexually accessible are inferior and deserving of humiliation. and those men feel that sex is the way to punish.
why do you think almost all insults you can give to a woman are related to sexual activity? slut, whore, cocksucker, tramp, bimbo - at least here in the states, the way to insult a woman infers that she has lots of sex, either paid or not paid. and the way to compliment a man is that he does.
most photographers i know (not all) talk about their models the same way in person. making money from them is okay, but BEING a female model makes you a lower life form in their
there is still plenty of non-derogatory porn out there - honest. there are programs that wouldn't consider making a site that used words like bitch or whore, much less calling them stupid or attempting to degrade them.
and don't forget videos - sites are not the only place where this stuff occurs. there's a series of videos called M.I.L.T.F. Money that not only insults some of the models, they say horrible things about their children growing up to be strippers and whores. for me, these were as offensive as it gets, and if i'd have been a chick wanting to break into porn, i'd have gotten up and walked the fuck out.
I dont think its a big deal. Those girls look like theyre from nyc so theyre about as street smart as you can get. And some of them barely speak english so when someone comes along and offers them $1k to suck dick with a clean toilet seat cover on their head, hell yeah theyll do it.
gay men are far nastier
heres just a sample from nyc of gay ads that have the word "toilet" in the ad
http://newyork.craigslist.org/cgi-bi...min&maxAsk=max
So tons of gay men like toilet sex, so with men its hot but with women its degrading?
Some people LIKE being degraded and think its hot.
is there any difference between a model having a toilet seat around her head or a gay man with a collar around his neck and a leash, licking his "masters" boots?
Ive asked guys to smack me around during sex and I think its hot and exciting.
as for bitch and whore, well if theyre from nyc then thats probably how they talk to girls there and turning it up a notch for the porn.
I WISH someone would do that in gay porn because that guys voice is hot.
Gay porn is too nice and boring.
Most of the gay porn I see today is all about getting a "straight" guy to turn gay and then oral and possibly some anal, ZZZZZzzzzzzzzz.
gimme some spice. 0.02
I think it's very possible to be original without being sexist and degrading, and in fact depicting women in a degrading manner is pretty boring to me. The Toilet site I found pretty tame compared to other straight sites I've seen, and not so offensive. But some sites do cross the line and hurt the industry as a whole.
For example:
Straight sites that calls women 'bitches' 'whores' and 'hoes.' I don't like it personally or see why guys get off on it so much, but not that big a deal.
Straight sites that promotes raping women...that's wrong and hurts the industry as a whole.
As for the gay sites, yeah we are nasty, but I think there is a difference. As Bass Chick pointed out, women who like sex are 'whores' and 'sluts' while the men are 'studs.' When we're talking about gay sites, we're all men so there is a difference. There is no 'sexism' since we're all the same sex.
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I dont think its a big deal. Those girls look like theyre from nyc so theyre about as street smart as you can get. And some of them barely speak english so when someone comes along and offers them $1k to suck dick with a clean toilet seat cover on their head, hell yeah theyll do it.
gay men are far nastier
heres just a sample from nyc of gay ads that have the word "toilet" in the ad
http://newyork.craigslist.org/cgi-bi...min&maxAsk=max
So tons of gay men like toilet sex, so with men its hot but with women its degrading?
Some people LIKE being degraded and think its hot.
is there any difference between a model having a toilet seat around her head or a gay man with a collar around his neck and a leash, licking his "masters" boots?
Ive asked guys to smack me around during sex and I think its hot and exciting.
as for bitch and whore, well if theyre from nyc then thats probably how they talk to girls there and turning it up a notch for the porn.
I WISH someone would do that in gay porn because that guys voice is hot.
Gay porn is too nice and boring.
Most of the gay porn I see today is all about getting a "straight" guy to turn gay and then oral and possibly some anal, ZZZZZzzzzzzzzz.
gimme some spice. 0.02
As far as I am concerned, it is an old-school mentality, which seems to be impossible to rid from our world, and I believe stems from obsolete ideals such as religion - they are the type of men (and women) whom are intolerant, and do not believe in equality.
1). Superiority - males thinking they are better or more important than females is something the world has had to endure since the dawn of humanity. Latin, African, Asian and too many other societies still believe this is how things are meant to be. Many countries in the world still have loopholes in laws protecting a man's manly hood.
2). Greed - money, like religion, makes people do very evil things.
Simply put, people will do more or less anything for the money. It is saddening indeed, but very true.
What I do not understand is how many women (and some men) will allow the selves to be degraded for the mere drop of a coin or why they remain in abusive relationships (they have children to feed is not an adequate excuse, and it is one which has alternate solutions).
Similar views belong to those people that find it so important to be sexually active. What I mean is, if you do not ‘score’ you are viewed differently (most heterosexuals assume homosexuality is the reason), as if something is wrong with you.
It is all very simple... we come from apes (whom evolved from rodents) not that long ago, and most of humanity still maintain the inherent or intrinsic beliefs, and we are constantly regressing.
(Oh, I simply love it: from where I sit, I can hear the god-fearing creationist screaming.)
good points Paco!
i never liked these kind of niche i think it's very degrading but there are people who find pleasure on that.
Thank you kindly - (as per my usual) the words are from my heart as the topic, of females being wronged or abused, disturbs me greatly.Quote:
Originally Posted by Fetishlady
(Also, I am the type of person that does not know how to mind his own business and I tend to get in 'trouble'.)
Please, do not take this the wrong way (the following is not 'aimed' at you), but there are also people that find pleasure in bestiality and paedophilia. I truly do not care about what people do, until it harms others (without consent or against their will, whether human or animal).
Those taking advantage of a person’s financial disability or status are no better than those dealing in CP etc!
Pimps (and madams) back in the day were looked at as bad people, because they were, and many still are. They do not care about much, with the exception of their own well-being and of course profit. Some porn producers are in essence the same.
A professional model knows what they are getting into.
A non-professional, whom happens to be strapped for cash/broke/whatever will say 'yes', without thinking about the consequences or future (plus I am sure some of the scum out there do not divulged their full intentions). They are unable to see the malice headed their way.
The person is an adult is not an adequate defence because we all know (or should) when conceived/created people are not equal - many are lacking in certain departments.