Would like some help with new advertising ideas if anyone has any

Hello everyone i'm new to this forum and all pretty much all forums. I own www.boyslightsout.com and am looking to exchange links with other adult websites. if anyone is interested i'd love to hear from you i can be e-mailed many way but i check my yahoo the most so here it is ko_night_prowler@yahoo.com . I am also tring to find new ways to advertise my website and am still kinda new to the internet. if anyone is willing to brain storm idea with me some time i would greatly appriciate it.