Originally Posted by
DonMike
Something else to keep in mind is that there is no black and white in sexuality. There are a multitude of ways a person can be sexually, even to the point of not identifying themselves sexually. A straight guy can get a blowjob from another guy, totally enjoy it, but that does not make him gay. Same as a gay man could totally fall in love with a woman and still be attracted to men.
Consider the fact that this guy got into porn as a way to make money. He dated men and women. Maybe he's gay and totally in denial and repression, maybe he's let his religious beliefs overshadow his true passions, or maybe he really liked women all along and only dated men because he felt he couldn't be straight if he was doing gay porn.
The truth of the matter is that without really knowing the man personally, and on a deep level, we simply don't know. He may not even know for sure at this point. I think we all tend to take our own experiences and use them to color our opinions of others. I went through that phase of calling myself "bisexual" for several months because I couldn't deal with being gay, so for the longest time anytime I heard someone identify themselves as bisexual my immediate impression was the same, that they were gay and not dealing with it. Is that really fair to that person for me to assume that? Maybe they are going through what I went through, maybe they're more straight but open enough to enjoy sex with men? Maybe they're truly bisexual? Maybe their just a slut. Who knows. It's not for me to judge.