http://gayeroticexpo.com/
I've had fun at this in 2004, 2005, 2006... looking forward to 2007 this coming weekend.
To me, shows like this make much more sense than the webmaster conventions, per the thread Lee started yesterday!
This is where the pedal hits the metal... the studios and the websites meet the customers.
Whether trying to find new customers, or doing relations with existing customers.