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Here is the deal.
I consider you guys my family (since my own is lame as fuck) and I have a personal problem. I am a BAD relationship going on 10 years (yes I KNOW should have been delt with years ago)...but was NOT!!!!!!
I need help to get the fuck out!!
Advice...
Motivation by those who have been there...
PM me...email me lee@leechapman.com
Help me out out!!
HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!
LEE
lee, i feel for you - very much so - and just sent you the mother of all emails. you are not alone and lots of people here think well of you!
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Originally Posted by MiamiB
Lee:
Hey, I hear ya. I'm world famous for avoiding confrontation.
I was in a 9 year relationship throughout my 20s, which went on at least three years too long.
But in that I was too timid and co-dependent to confront it, wasting a lot of our time. (Although the neglect was mutual, he and I just grew apart)
You could just try with sitting him down and saying that you are unhappy and want to be single. Nothing personal, that's just the reality. If he calls you a loser for just "giving up" don't get defensive, allow him to let off steam. And keep repeating what you want.
My breakups have been *divorces* in every sense of the word.
If he can really dominate you one on one, you can get one or two of your friends to appear at your place, and you all gang up on him intervention-style, which was how I ultimately had to handle my last relationship.
See, many people may be unaware of this, but some time ago, a bunch of Latino control-crazy coke bottoms all got together and formed a city. This city is today called San Antonio, Texas.
:morning: Caveat emptor!
Steve
Dear Mister LEE,
I'm going to FedEx you a copy of "Enough" with Jennifer Lopez. lol
The best of luck to you,
Duggy