looking for traffic and banner links

Hi I wonder if you can help me. I’m inquiring from a new gay dating web site called gay axis www.gayaxis.com . We have currently just finished the building of our site and are now in the full swing of marketing. We are going to offer a set period of time where people can access the site for free and become a free member and We would very much like to get involved with us to set-up banner exchanges. Our site also has a sections of adult content. I feel there are a few different areas we can help in advertising and affiliate programs which we feel would give back money. I would like to talk about these topics in further detail and look forward to a response.
Regards
Jon