Originally Posted by
Matt 26z
I said no, and I must wonder how many of those who voted yes are already HIV+, or maybe they are total tops. But a - bottom willing to take it from a + top? Anyone answer yes with that in mind?
To me anyone who is - that knowingly has sex with a + is just asking for trouble. I don't care if condoms are being used, it will break eventually. Plus there have been cases of it being passed orally, so this "saliva kills HIV" argument that you hear sometimes is just stupid.
While I am sure that guys with HIV feel ostracized in a lot of situations, I am not willing to put their hurt feelings ahead of my own body.