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Oh, and I hope this was just an example of your incredible sense of humor and not how you truly feel.Quote:
Originally posted by D-man
I was gonna keep my mouth shut and just read this thread but your comment was REALLY fucking gay -
Lee - you should put a leash on some of these asshats queens -
That's so gay!
well I was offended and had I said stupid gay guys I think I would have been banned -Quote:
Originally posted by Xstr8guy
Wow, that was harsh. jIgG wasn't putting down all straight guys, just the ones that use 'gay' as a derogatory term. We have to hear that all of our lives and, in most instances, we have to keep our mouths shut. GWW is one of the few places that we can feel free to bitch about stuff that pisses us off.
my point is do not promote hate -
"the stupid str8 boys" - yeah I think I can rest my case!
Exactly.Quote:
Originally posted by Darren Austin
if we made that comment on the netpond or the PLR board we would have been slammed and trashed for a comment like that.
Its fine for them to slam and trash 'the gays' but not the other way around, how fucked up is that? lol
Personally i dont see why both gay and straight webmasters cant all get along and, for the most part, as an industry we do but there are those places in the industry where being gay and working in porn is viewed as 'disgusting' its a sad state of affairs when you think about it, all everyone is doing is making a living :(
Regards,
Lee
WHAT? That is precisely why it was posted here... GWW is a safe haven for us.Quote:
Originally posted by Darren Austin
Also turning the tables a little bit, if we made that comment on the netpond or the PLR board we would have been slammed and trashed for a comment like that.
Rest your case?!? Get real!Quote:
Originally posted by D-man
well I was offended and had I said stupid gay guys I think I would have been banned -
my point is do not promote hate -
"the stupid str8 boys" - yeah I think I can rest my case!
That is a completely legitmate complaint for gay webmasters.Quote:
i guess the stupid str8 boys think they're so cool when they say "that's so gay" because everyone else does it
yeah I have never uttered the the phrase - but yes I used humor to get the point across - and I still don't like what was said -Quote:
Originally posted by Xstr8guy
Oh, and I hope this was just an example of your incredible sense of humor and not how you truly feel.
I don't even think most of the people who use the phrase are haters -
Even I have had threats to my life for having gay webmasters on the PLRradio show so it's not like I am clueless but to use the phrase he did just promotes a negitive enviroment on GWW -
I will admit to occasionally lashing out at certain communities wihtout really thinking before talking... with me, it's Christians.
I've made some rather obnoxious statements about Christians, attacked them personally, accused them of all sorts of wrong doing, and once went so far as to set a box of Jesus Is The Way comic books on fire once outside the Eaton Center.
But I don't hate all christians, no matter how often i say I do, and I don't mean half of the backhanded comments aimed at them, either.
So.. yeah.. saying "That's so gay" isn't cool, and neither is "Stupid st8 Boys" in the wrong company. Most of us here get it.. but many of us don't... it's not a personal attack,. and it's not meant to single out anyone or blanket all straight men.
But i think we could all benefit from a bit of self-censoring. Myself included.
Well I cannot speak for Netpond - (jayman made his reply) No one gets slammed on my board gay or stright and if someone did post hate I assure you I would delete and ban the offending personQuote:
Originally posted by Lee
Exactly.
Its fine for them to slam and trash 'the gays' but not the other way around, how fucked up is that? lol
Personally i dont see why both gay and straight webmasters cant all get along and, for the most part, as an industry we do but there are those places in the industry where being gay and working in porn is viewed as 'disgusting' its a sad state of affairs when you think about it, all everyone is doing is making a living :(
Regards,
Lee
I hear ya there dude unfortunately you seem to be in a minority, in fact i would say that 90% of the other boards just leave that kind of crap there, whether it be disrespectful to the gay community, female community or anything outside of the straight white male webmaster populous :(Quote:
Originally posted by D-man
Well I cannot speak for Netpond - (jayman made his reply) No one gets slammed on my board gay or stright and if someone did post hate I assure you I would delete and ban the offending person
Regards,
Lee
Sounds like reason enough for banning to me. When such hateful words come from someone's mouth and it's directed at a valued member of our community, I see no other option.Quote:
Originally posted by D-man
Lee - you should put a leash on some of these asshats queens
... other than a sincere apology.Quote:
Originally posted by Xstr8guy
Sounds like reason enough for banning to me. When such hateful words come from someone's mouth and it's directed at a valued member of our community, I see no other option.
not to be a spammer, and Lee can whack my peepee if he sees fit, but I'm trying to encourage more gay webmasters to have a look at XNations.
Gay friendly but no gay forums. I believe in equal pay! LOL
(bring it on Lee!) :wtf:
Oh poop, he's offended - so I shouldn't be by "that's so gay dude...." comments?
Some fellow queers are offended by such comments,I'm not in the least offended by stupid str8 boys at all.
I've formed an opinion, I find the comment stupid so I said so. It's up to you if you take it personally or not, and I don't care unless of course I've directed it at you personally and then turned out to be wrong, but in this case I didn't.
Anyone who knows me knows I don't hold back if I got something to say I say it just the way I feel it.
I've had me enough crap at school from the str8 idiots to stay shut and say nothing.
I'll let the asshat queen comment fly by just because it's Lee's board
Time for the Rodney King "Let's everyone get along" post. :)