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First, I'd like to thank all of you for you kind words and support.
Thank you all so, so very much!
The relationship is very fragile for now (in terms of whether or not we'll get back together, remain friends, go to court or whatever) It'll remain that way until the damn house and money are sorted out.
We're separated, but getting along ok and we'll just have to see how it plays out.
My sister Storm (Cherie) rocks!
I had no idea she was keeping such good track of what she, her partner and I have done as far as the house and business are concerned. Everything's been documented (But, it makes sense that she would've kept track, since she had no emotional attachment with my partner other than she cared for him cause he's been with me...that and she's a little better skilled at taking care of herself then I am. Factor that in with the little trust she has for anyone...and PHREW...it pays off.
The day after my partner Lee's and my fight/breakup...I got drunk for a couple of days and didn't sleep for 48 hours...but, my sister Storm went to see her lawyer and had him write a letter to my partner.
I guess that letter threw my partner back into "reality", because he came back and said he wanted to make sure we worked everything out financially. That he wanted to make sure all partners were compensated. He wants to make sure he get's his house finished and that we all get our money out of it. Then we'll figure out what we need to do with our business.
Plus, I think that once Lee found out when people heard that I was available for work, I got 7 request for work in our sub alone. (I've made it a point to let the people here know that when we were done working on our house, I'd be avalible to do whatever they needed done...plumbing, carpenter, heating, electric and etc...so, work would be easy to get! (Not to mention that 3 of my friends wanted mainstream sites built the day after...how weird eh)
Soooo, I'm guessing life could be much worse...at least I have a smile now! Thanks to all of you and the few friends I have here.
I have to tell this story, even though it'll make this post so damn long.
It was a very STRANGE evening the night of the fight/breakup, when my friend came to rescue me/take me out to "forget or numb".
When my friend took me out..about 8pm, the night of my partners and mine fight (but, my friend got more loaded then me...lol) He took me out just to get me away from all of the bullshit, the fighting, the house and the nightmare of contracting/building/landscape. Only,the first bar he takes me to, we walk in, AND...it was "under construction" and, it looked way too much like the damn house I'm building...drywall, painting, etc...PLUS, the old man who was in charge or owned it was Italian and reminded me of my partners father! I began to say..."what the hell is this All about"?
So we take off and the next place we go to, the bartender was talking to some people down the bar from us about "finishing her house", complaining they built it by themselves and it took 3 years. By now I'm tripping...thinking I can't even get away from the shit!
To further the trippy night...When we first arrived at the bar, sitting on the bar stool where we were going to sit at, there were these two huge rolled up white papers...we just ignored them and sat down. Well, about 1/2 hour later, a couple came and asked if there was anyone sitting there and asked if they could sit there. I said "Sure, go ahead". So the guy moved the papers on to the bar....my friend and the guy who sat down wondered what the hell the papers were...so, they opened them. They were fricking "HOUSE PLANS"! They even looked like Lee's and my house. Someone had left them at the bar! We gave them to the bartender and she knew who they belonged to. She says "Yeah, they were fighting all night about these plans". Now I'm saying WTF???
So, we start talking to the couple. We ask..."What are your names? The guy says his name is Lee! "YIKES" I actually said outloud, "that's my partners name"! (Why can't I even escape this shit???)...so, we ask what he does for a living...he says he owns a land scaping business (which has been my BIGGEST BITCH about doing this damn house...meaning, I got payed the least amount for the work I've done doing that shit) Then we ask his girl friend what she does..she say's she works for her father in construction! Her father is a contractor...aye yi yi! I couldn't get away from it!
For whatever reason it was important for me to get HIT with all this shit while I was out.
I figure it means something...don't know now for sure what it all meant though (Gotta figure it means I'm where I'm supposed to be though...(as I always think anyway)
But the messages where pretty darn clear eh!
Just goes ta show ya...there ARE higher forces at work no matter what you do or where you go! (That plus I must have a pretty funny guardian angel...hehe)
Just wanna say thank you so much again everyone
I was glad to be able to share this story...I'll be back more and more as we sort out the sites and puter shit (Still haven't got my own puter that I can "work" on, but we're back in biz!)
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i'm glad to hear you're doing a little better, Rainbo1956.
it's funny - whenever people break up, they go places and hear breakup songs every single place they go or run into stuff like you did. it's one of life's weird laws.
be careful about thinking about getting back together with an ex. a lot of people do it, but they end up in an on-again, off-again thing, with the pain of breaking up happening over and over... don't wanna see you get hurt again.
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I'm glad to hear you're doing better now. Though we've never met I felt for you tremendously and am glad things are moving on with you now. It looks like you're in great hands :high:
