I remember hearing a story about a certain park on Broadview in Toronto. :goseek:Quote:
Originally Posted by Jasun
I remember hearing a story about a certain park on Broadview in Toronto. :goseek:Quote:
Originally Posted by Jasun
If it's summer time, the first thing I'll check out on a hot guy is his feet. I don't like to do anything with them, but I like a guy to have nice looking feet. I have not gone out for second dates because a guy has had ugly feet. Needless to say, since Ted and I have been together for ten years now, he has nice feet.
:)
Michael
You really should post the info of your site, though, Max. Everyone else here includes it in their signature. I'm not sure why Lee hasn't called you on this yet and required that everyone does it. I think it should be mandatory that if you post on any site such as this one, where information is being traded back and forth and networking is a big part of it, you should have to reveal what your business is and stand behind it. Otherwise, it appears as if you are afraid to show us what it is that you do. It really is time for you to step up to the plate and reveal yourself. How do you expect anyone here to respect you or want to help you out if you won't play on the up and up and show your cards?Quote:
Originally Posted by maxpower
I know what you're saying about "liberated sexuality." I agree that one of the downfalls to this is the fact that gay men get so used to having casual sex that they avoid relationships out of fear of intimacy. I think, frankly, the gay community is one of the most fucked up there is. I see so much avoidance and insecurity and unhappiness in the community. So much emphasis on muscles and body and youth over personality and committment and partnership. So much importance given to the material things over the stuff that really matters. I am often VERY disappointed in the gay community for acting like children. There is very little value placed on things that I find to be of importance, and it seems to be a very "me me me" community.
Having said that, however, there are always exceptions to that, and I hardly think that you can blame all of that on "liberated sexuality." Not all animals in the animal kingdom mate for life. Casual sex is a huge part of the natural human makeup. Sex is as natural as eating and breathing. Its just another need that we as humans have, and, IMHO, there is nothing wrong with taking care of that need so long as both (or however many) parties are consensual and all understand the ramifications (i.e. one-night-stand versus fuck buddy versus potential boyfriend, etc.). Every now and then I just need to suck dick. On those times, I will take care of my need with no shame or guilt, b/cuz, as far as I see it, there's no need for such a thing. It doesn't mean that I'm less inclined to settle down with someone else.
Anyway, again, I think you should try and open up a little bit and see that when it boils down to it, it's all good. People do what they do for their own reasons, and that's just the way life is. You don't have to partake, but it dosen't really give you the right to denounce it. What doesn't work for you will always work for someone else.
In all honesty Ken, i dont beleive webmasters should have to have active links to their sites on public forums, there are a LOT of scammers out there who would see a site they liked and flat out copy it.Quote:
Originally Posted by XXXWriterDude
The same is true for Avatars, i really dont care one way or the other whether someone puts an avatar in their profile or a link in their sig whilst there are others who do.. Horses for courses i guess :)
That being said, it is kind of confusing why someone with a paysite and affiliate program doesnt want to tell other webmasters about it. [shrug]
Regards,
Lee
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Originally Posted by Dzinerbear
right.
my reputation.
:jasun:
I suppose I see your point, Lee. But isn't that one of the risks of going into any business in the first place? I could just as easily stumble across the sites belonging to any one of these webmasters in here w/out having been exposed to them via GWW, and could still copy their site. I mean, that's just one of the risks involved in being a webmaster, just as with me being a writer someone could easily steal one of my stories.Quote:
Originally Posted by Lee
I agree with you here. Seems like he's hiding behind something.Quote:
That being said, it is kind of confusing why someone with a paysite and affiliate program doesnt want to tell other webmasters about it.
I don't think I fit the stereotype of the leather bar patron, but I usually feel more comfortable in a "sleazy leather bar" than a place crowded with make-up covered mirror-worshipers and blaring electronic pseudo-music. Ken is right--the guys in the leather bar are more real.
I also think sex in places where there is the chance of discovery is hot! Put me down for having sex in a dressing room at the mall. Oh, and in the front seat of an Escalade at the parking ramp of a federal courthouse. And on a beach chair at midnight on the beach in Florida [not Internext].
Sexual escapades are hot and fun and add excitement and spice to life! I will probably add a few more to my list before I tire of them.
I don't see things sexual as sleazy, but there are some things that don't interest me and I don't choose to do them. You won't see me pouring hot wax on DonMike's nipples but if he likes it, more power to him!! DonMike probably wouldn't want to join me in an impromptu whipped cream swallowing contest at the Pendulum either, but he would be just fine with me enjoying it.
I did have lots of sexual hangups but shed them like a dirty pair of underwear when I moved out of Iowa. Damn life is good now~
Oh, and I guess the topic was "what is the first part of a guy you look at"
I look at his torso--from waist to shoulders. And then eyes. Brown eyes make me melt like a Dairy Queen dip cone in August.
:yeah: Then their legs and ass.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sana Chan
Andy is the man. I also look at feet. For some odd reason I just can't date a guy unless he actually shows he can take care of his feet. No gross toenails or anything.
ME TOO!Quote:
Originally Posted by Sana Chan
I feel so normal now hahah
Ah of course its normal. If they take the time to take good care of the their body, not just in the chucky dept or such just in personal grooming, it can say alot about them.
face/eyes/a** and in that order! , but all that means very little if he can't carry on a two-way conversation.
jim
Oh! Face, eyes, mouth, and crotch in that order.
face, abs, cock size.. cute face, smooth chest, defined abs, 8+ gets me going.. think of a hung Justin from QAF.. I would say I like twinks, but I hate to use the word. It generates so much negative reaction in here.
but as far as cock size i have enough for both of us. but i can be a bit of a size queen at times.
If its not there in his face, then I ignore him, but if that is there then it is stomach, legs, back, ass, and the cock's gotta back it all up or I'm done.
Face, nails, and feet :)
face first. then hair - or shape of head if shaved. if that works, body. i love slender - even a little skinny. from there - depends on how it's gone so far.
maxpower - a little sleazy sex can be a beautiful thing if it's done right. not only filthy dirty fun, but a great way to blow away the cobwebs that middle class or christian living may have left on one's sexuality.
why judge something you very obviously don't understand?
Just because I say that I don’t like sex in public bathrooms, suddenly now I am a prude, bigot, or a religious nut that’s really fucked up. I really don’t want to argue about it, but if I said I love to have sex in my local park with random people no one would have had any problem with that at all :5ymca:Quote:
Originally Posted by basschick
Great, remind me to keep an eye on you next time you come in to Mr. S to try on chaps. :huh:Quote:
Originally Posted by chadknowslaw
Why stop at the nipples? :shifty:Quote:
You won't see me pouring hot wax on DonMike's nipples but if he likes it, more power to him!!
I think the issue here is that you are not just stating that you, personally, don't like a certain type of sex, it's that you seem to look down on those that do. I don't know if that was your intention, but it's the way it came off. Maybe it's not the things you say but simply the way you say them. I'm having that problem with a member of my leather club. He will often state an opinion in such a way that comes off as if he were saying "I'm right and you're wrong" rather than it just being his opinion. I know when I'm disagreeing with someone I read my post first to make sure I don't sound like I'm putting the other person down. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by maxpower
This has been bugging me for days. What does "horses for courses" mean? :err:Quote:
Originally Posted by Lee
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Originally Posted by maxpower
And why should we, max? If that is what makes you happy, why should any of us have any problems with that? How does that offend any of us? It's your life, your sexuality. That is the point we are trying to make. Some of us may not cruise the local parks looking for anonymous sex, but that doesn't mean that we don't understand its lure for someone else. The whole point is being non-judgmental about sexuality. Within ethical, consensual boundaries, sexuality should be encoruaged and respected.
you didn't say you don't like it - you judged other people who DID like it.
the world is full of different people who make different choices. why should anyone judge other people's lifestyle choices?
you're damned right - if you wanted to have sex with strangers in the park, i wouldn't have had a problem at all. after all, if you were doing it where kids could see you'd be in jail. so why shouldn't a guy have a fun liason with another guy hidden in the greenery?
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Originally Posted by maxpower