im giving up... (a personal rant)

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Originally posted by basschick
you do, you do!!!!!!

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actually i wouldnt mind... once i get my personal things in order i might come check it out.

are u coming to florida?

I won't argue that Dawgy. I love LA! Hey, someone should write a song and call it that. LOL!

its just... so... big...

LA i mean

damn get ur mind outta the gutter

seriously tho, isnt it harder to meet people in a huge city like that?

Well, I think you and I are lookin' for different kinds of people, Dawgy, so I can't really be of much help there. LOL! I've had a hard time meeting guys, but I think I'm a little too picky. I'm also terribly shy when it comes to flirting. Funny, I can get on a stage and do bizzarre things, I can work a convention, I can tell all my nasty little secrets on adult webmaster message boards, but can I go up to a hot guy in a bar and start a conversation? Nope. Ugh. :(

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Originally posted by Ounique
Well, I think you and I are lookin' for different kinds of people, Dawgy, so I can't really be of much help there. LOL! I've had a hard time meeting guys, but I think I'm a little too picky. I'm also terribly shy when it comes to flirting. Funny, I can get on a stage and do bizzarre things, I can work a convention, I can tell all my nasty little secrets on adult webmaster message boards, but can I go up to a hot guy in a bar and start a conversation? Nope. Ugh. :(

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i have that exact same problem.

btw, should we get up on stage together in florida & do bizzare things? lol

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Originally posted by Dawgy


btw, should we get up on stage together in florida & do bizzare things? lol

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if you do, let us know ahead of time so I can bring lots of singles.

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Originally posted by Dawgy
i have that exact same problem.

btw, should we get up on stage together in florida & do bizzare things? lol

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Heh heh, careful what you wish for. Actually I will probably not be in Florida, but I'm most likely going to be at the Vegas Internext in January. :)

aww. ill have to find someone else to spank me in august :(

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Originally posted by Dawgy
aww. ill have to find someone else to spank me in august :(

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:leather: :whip:

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Originally posted by Chris Alan
:leather: :whip:

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hah u wish

i'll just have to wait until january when don is around

my - how this thread has digressed ;)

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Originally posted by basschick
my - how this thread has digressed ;)

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you're just jealous cuz Don doesn't wanna spank you too :goof:

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Originally posted by Dawgy
aww. ill have to find someone else to spank me in august :(

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I seem to recall this being talked about in another thread. :)

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Originally posted by 123Jason
you see i know how to use that whip now....do you need a lesson of your own?

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Here's the thread

Ok...I'm not really going to bother trying to be tactfull or politically correct on this issue. If I offend, take a number and get in line with the rest I've offended and maybe I'll get to you in this lifetime.

All of the men I've ever called a boyfriend have been significantly older than myself. The first one was, for a long time, the proverbial "one that got away" or so I thought. I was 20 and he was in his mid-late 30's. He was smokin hot with the most piercing deep blue eyes, a broad muscular hairy chest, 10"cock, tan skin and a great body. He was a Dr. of Psychology with his own private practice and head of a hospital Psych. dept. He had a nice place, money, a sense of humor...was well traveled, intelligent and educated. The best feeling he ever gave me was in the mornings. We would talk and he's invite me over in the evenings, but he lived almost an hour's drive from me so I told him I didn't want to drive home alone late at night and would only come if I could stay. He always said that was fine as long as I'd leave early with him as he had to work. That, of course, was fine with me. Every time this happened though, the alarm would sound early in the morning and he'd hit snooze twice before I started bugging him that he had to get up and go to work. At that point, without fail, he would roll over and pick up the phone. He'd call his secretary and tell her to cancel all his morning appointments. When I told him he really should go he'd roll back over and hold me in his arms telling me he didn't care about work. All he wanted to do in that moment was to stay in bed holding me. If this has ever happened to you, then you know how great that can feel. That at 20 years old, barely discovering your sexuality and sense of self, a mature, beautiful, successful man would rather be with you than doing anything else.

Well, needless to say we were at VERY different points in our lives. I was just beginning to learn what it was to be gay and he was ready to commit and settle down. Our break-up was mutual but I agonized over it for months thinking I should have done what it would take to stay with him.

I ran into him a couple years later and told him that I had a hard time getting over him, that I liked him a lot and that I always felt like he was "the one that got away." When he asked why I hadn't admitted those things at the time, I told him that I knew he didn't feel the same way about me and didn't want to make it any harder than it needed to be. His exact response was "Well...yeah." Then he went on to spend 20 minutes telling me about his then boyfriend and how hot and smart and tallented HE was.

FUCK HIM

I went on to date other older men, for many reasons I think. Particularly within the gay community, specifically the bar-going-cruisy-looking-to-hook-up-we're here-we're queer-get over it gay community....agism is ridiculously out of control. I'm getting to a point now in my life where I'd really like to date someone my own age (28). Not because I dislike older men, but because I finally feel I have some common ground with men my age and we're just getting to the point now where we can relate to each other as men, not boys.

I spent the other day touring San Diego with a woman who is so vibrant and full of life that she practically wore me out....she is 62. And we talked a bit about age. I admitted that, for the first time, I'm thoroughly looking forward to my 30's. I finally feel emotionally secure and confident and am taking the steps I need to assure my success in many areas of my life. But I'm still young enough to get plenty of blood pumping downward when I walk through a room. I have found that I'm not particularly attracted to people who aren't attracted to me, even if I find them attractive in their own rite. Many in our community are hung up on age for the sake of having a hang up....for the sake of age itself. To them, I say the same thing I said to the one I let get away....

FUCK THEM

he's TRYING to fuck them - the little bastards are saying no. that's the problem *grin*






since this thread mostly seemed to have turned so happy and humorous when it started, i felt i could get away with that...

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Originally posted by basschick
he's TRYING to fuck them - the little bastards are saying no. that's the problem *grin*






since this thread mostly seemed to have turned so happy and humorous when it started, i felt i could get away with that...

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lol jason & patti...

im not just trying to fuck them. altho with the maturity level of guys that age i am rather sceptical that ill ever find a relationship.

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Originally posted by 123Jason
Ok...I'm not really going to bother trying to be tactfull or politically correct on this issue. If I offend, take a number and get in line with the rest I've offended and maybe I'll get to you in this lifetime.

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Jason,

I want to ask you a favor....

Can I use that line myself?

I am still wiping the tears from my eyes and changing my shorst from pissing myself laughing!

I might be able to come back and read and respond to the rest of your post some time later, but right now I am totally incapacitated with laughter.

:groovy: ;) :grin:

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Originally posted by Jasun
If Johnny Depp wouldn't do it, neither should you. He's 42. He's now your role model.

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Wow... the whole post was awesome Jasun...It should be on a 40th BDay Hallmark card for all Men...

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Originally posted by CuriousToyBoy
Jason,

I want to ask you a favor....

Can I use that line myself?

I am still wiping the tears from my eyes and changing my shorst from pissing myself laughing!

I might be able to come back and read and respond to the rest of your post some time later, but right now I am totally incapacitated with laughter.

:groovy: ;) :grin:

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abso-fuckin-lutely my friend

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Originally posted by 123Jason
abso-fuckin-lutely my friend

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Oh goodie-goodie-goodie !

Thanks Jason!

:bandana:

Aw Oh. Just started giggling again....

:bandana:

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Originally posted by CX*
Wow... the whole post was awesome Jasun...It should be on a 40th BDay Hallmark card for all Men...

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thanks, CX... it's all very hard learned. Once I turned about 33, I got all depressed, 'cause I thought I was old and past it. Nobody was even looking at me when I'd go out, and I was losing my hair... i guess after a while, we just have to learn to make it all work for us.

Love your Avatar, by the way.