Not really being into public sex myself, I will say I think it's hot.
I don't ever do it, and I've never really wanted to, although I've been to more than a few private play parties.
But yeah, Max.. you need to kinda drop this whole "I have sex right and you have it wrong" thing.. it's.. rather.. 1952.
I was only repeating what he said when I said “sleazy” leather bars but soon after he said it he edited that word out. I like I said before I don’t care what you do, but public sex in a bathroom is not going to be at the top of my list of things to do. No matter if its in a leather bar or at the YMCA. What I find weird is that my personal option against such behavior is so widely disliked. We are all gay, but damn that dose not mean that none of us can have at least the smallest sexual morals and speak up about them. If you are just running around with your dick in one hand, and a bottle of KY in the other like some crazed spider monkey, then nothing I say would change that. BTW I hope you know I am ˝ joking with that :dunce:
I think the concern, Max, is that you make it sound as if the rest of us DON'T have morals. It's OK if you're not into something, but you kind of insinuated that those who hang out in sleazy leather bars should shape up b/cuz you thought it was sad that they hung out there. Liberated sexuality is a wonderful thing. It's what makes the gay community so special. There are downsides to that, but it's a very big part of the community's history, and it shouldnt' be judged by those who don't understand it.Quote:
Originally Posted by maxpower
Well I did not say that no one in the gay community have morals, but we are going to have to agree to disagree about this seemingly “Liberated sexuality” being a positive thing. I believe it is more a ken to people own personally worlds orbiting around their cocks, and is one of the biggest problem in our community. I also think this is a big part of why most gay people can not be in a stable relationship, and that hurts us all.Quote:
Originally Posted by XXXWriterDude
Funny how when you get called on something, you try to make out like it was only a joke. I think frankly that either you and truth have no passing association or you simply forgot your meds again.Quote:
Originally Posted by maxpower
The wild claims you make are based on what?
You talk about 'your' members and yet refuse to even post a sinlge URL of all the sites you 'claim' to manage... just as Mr Nomad / Newguy refused, in fact many of your claims are identical to his... so lets cut the juvenile bullshit.
If you aren't Nomad/NewGuy put your URL out there for people to see so they can at least know you actually do have a website... and not a pretend one lodged somewhere in your fantasy world.
Maybe then people will take you seriously, or not be jumping down your throat.. but for a guy who spends thousands of dollars for his members, has an affiliate program but never tells anyone what the URL is, well tends to make one discount your words totally.
So why create the drama, simply post the URL to your website, show everyone you actually are a webmaster, not a kid who got a computer for xmas.
I don’t know what your problem is with this guy, nor do I care, but it seems you are a bit obsessed. I Rarely reply to your posts because they normally are nothing more the ramblings, I have not seen you post anything help-full ever, so my past ignoring you will continue.Quote:
Originally Posted by gaystoryman
Damn, I thought I got rid of those pictures!!! :vanish:Quote:
Originally Posted by maxpower
LOLQuote:
Originally Posted by DonMike
That's all I have to say
Well, I have a huge shaving fetish so the first thing I notice about someone is their legs if they're shaved. In fact, I when I go to the beach or the park and guys are wearing shorts I look at everyone's legs to see who's smooth and who's hairy. And I looooooove shaved heads so I always look there too. I think I have a thing for bleached blondes, but not twinks, more like the punk bleached blondes.
And what I want to know is... what is the difference between a leather bar and a sleazy leather bar? I would think a sex club would be considered sleazy more than a leather bar. I mean, I've been to leather bars where guys were getting tied up, in fact I've been tied up in leather bars before. And flogged and had hot wax dripped over my scantily clothed body. (Does that make me sleazy Maxpower?) But even with all that going on, they've been clean places where friends get together and socialize and clubs hold fundraisers that send thousands of dollars to various charities such as helping people living with AIDS and clothing the homeless. So would that still be sleazy? Why do people equate open sexuality with something bad? Why can't you be a good upstanding moral person and still enjoy sex? Our bodies have this amazing capacity for pleasure so why not enjoy it?
Some of you may not want to waste your time with the following.
It's sometime around 6:30 am, Sunday morning. Me and a few of the fellas are in the basement of DanceFactory - we just finished kicking out all the softcore (those that simply do not understand). Our favorite chesterfields have been moved to the center of the dance floor and the screen has been dropped.
Michael (owner of the club, and my close friend & confidant) is responsible for tonight's eye candy; GrahamLocks for the ear candy; yours truly is responsible for everyone's state of mind.
Shortly after I take care of my duties, Graham & Michael proceed to take care of theirs. Michael, the lil cutie, decides to see how well I can handle 'his world', so he slips in one of his favorite porn flicks (sorry, I do not remember the title, but I'm sure some do understand) - it was some midcore BDSM (more like a glamslam'n BBQ).
Before the audio juice kicks in, we could hear a weird echo (weird because we only throated a maybe 10 ago, so were not hallucinating). After a bunch of 'woooos' and childish attempts at mindfuck games, the flick gets paused, yet the echos continue.
Hand-in-hand, we begin sneakin (SNEAKIN) towards the ladies powder room - an after hours disco/house club ... it was rarely used, which freaks us more. Before we entered the doorway, we could hears some really heavy breathing and a bit of whimpering.
Still hand-in-hand, Micheal leads us back to the den. Graham runs to the booth and throws on some tunes while the others quietly pick-up a couple of couches and move them towards the doorway).
BOOM! All of a sudden everything kicks-in at the very same time.
Public sex is pure white heat: yummy and very exprimal!
No matter what someone tries to tell me, have at er kiddies!
I remember hearing a story about a certain park on Broadview in Toronto. :goseek:Quote:
Originally Posted by Jasun
If it's summer time, the first thing I'll check out on a hot guy is his feet. I don't like to do anything with them, but I like a guy to have nice looking feet. I have not gone out for second dates because a guy has had ugly feet. Needless to say, since Ted and I have been together for ten years now, he has nice feet.
:)
Michael
You really should post the info of your site, though, Max. Everyone else here includes it in their signature. I'm not sure why Lee hasn't called you on this yet and required that everyone does it. I think it should be mandatory that if you post on any site such as this one, where information is being traded back and forth and networking is a big part of it, you should have to reveal what your business is and stand behind it. Otherwise, it appears as if you are afraid to show us what it is that you do. It really is time for you to step up to the plate and reveal yourself. How do you expect anyone here to respect you or want to help you out if you won't play on the up and up and show your cards?Quote:
Originally Posted by maxpower
I know what you're saying about "liberated sexuality." I agree that one of the downfalls to this is the fact that gay men get so used to having casual sex that they avoid relationships out of fear of intimacy. I think, frankly, the gay community is one of the most fucked up there is. I see so much avoidance and insecurity and unhappiness in the community. So much emphasis on muscles and body and youth over personality and committment and partnership. So much importance given to the material things over the stuff that really matters. I am often VERY disappointed in the gay community for acting like children. There is very little value placed on things that I find to be of importance, and it seems to be a very "me me me" community.
Having said that, however, there are always exceptions to that, and I hardly think that you can blame all of that on "liberated sexuality." Not all animals in the animal kingdom mate for life. Casual sex is a huge part of the natural human makeup. Sex is as natural as eating and breathing. Its just another need that we as humans have, and, IMHO, there is nothing wrong with taking care of that need so long as both (or however many) parties are consensual and all understand the ramifications (i.e. one-night-stand versus fuck buddy versus potential boyfriend, etc.). Every now and then I just need to suck dick. On those times, I will take care of my need with no shame or guilt, b/cuz, as far as I see it, there's no need for such a thing. It doesn't mean that I'm less inclined to settle down with someone else.
Anyway, again, I think you should try and open up a little bit and see that when it boils down to it, it's all good. People do what they do for their own reasons, and that's just the way life is. You don't have to partake, but it dosen't really give you the right to denounce it. What doesn't work for you will always work for someone else.
In all honesty Ken, i dont beleive webmasters should have to have active links to their sites on public forums, there are a LOT of scammers out there who would see a site they liked and flat out copy it.Quote:
Originally Posted by XXXWriterDude
The same is true for Avatars, i really dont care one way or the other whether someone puts an avatar in their profile or a link in their sig whilst there are others who do.. Horses for courses i guess :)
That being said, it is kind of confusing why someone with a paysite and affiliate program doesnt want to tell other webmasters about it. [shrug]
Regards,
Lee
oh .Quote:
Originally Posted by Dzinerbear
right.
my reputation.
:jasun: