I think where we differ in our experience as a minority group is the splintering that happens after we come out to friends and family. Some families sever all ties, try to change you, or see you as a disgrace. Some friends feel betrayed, wonder if you lied because you had a crush on them, and feel they can never trust you again. Degragation or total loss of familial ties is devestating to any human being and leaves life long scars in many people. None of these aspects are part of any other minority group. This experience is unique only to the Gay community.
I'm tempted to look up drug use and STD statistic across various minority groups and cross reference them with the Gay demographic to see what the real deal is. A quick glance at the CDC hiv stats for 2005 shows the following:
Male-to-male sexual contact 18,939
Male-to-male sexual contact and injection drug use 2,190
Injection Drug Use 8,985
High-risk heterosexual contact* 13,486
Other** 540
SOURCE
So 22,471 cases of non Gay related HIV cases in America
vs
21,129 Gay related cases of HIV in America
Shame it's considered a Gay problem when the majority of cases were through heterosexual contact and non gay injection drug use.
I have a feeling some research on drug statistics and homosexuals might be surprising as well but I don't have time right now to research it so I'll keep an opened mind.