When You See A Hot Guy... What Is The First Part Of His Body You Look At?

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Originally Posted by Lee

In all honesty Ken, i dont beleive webmasters should have to have active links to their sites on public forums, there are a LOT of scammers out there who would see a site they liked and flat out copy it.

The same is true for Avatars, i really dont care one way or the other whether someone puts an avatar in their profile or a link in their sig whilst there are others who do.. Horses for courses i guess :)

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I suppose I see your point, Lee. But isn't that one of the risks of going into any business in the first place? I could just as easily stumble across the sites belonging to any one of these webmasters in here w/out having been exposed to them via GWW, and could still copy their site. I mean, that's just one of the risks involved in being a webmaster, just as with me being a writer someone could easily steal one of my stories.

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That being said, it is kind of confusing why someone with a paysite and affiliate program doesnt want to tell other webmasters about it.

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I agree with you here. Seems like he's hiding behind something.

I don't think I fit the stereotype of the leather bar patron, but I usually feel more comfortable in a "sleazy leather bar" than a place crowded with make-up covered mirror-worshipers and blaring electronic pseudo-music. Ken is right--the guys in the leather bar are more real.

I also think sex in places where there is the chance of discovery is hot! Put me down for having sex in a dressing room at the mall. Oh, and in the front seat of an Escalade at the parking ramp of a federal courthouse. And on a beach chair at midnight on the beach in Florida [not Internext].

Sexual escapades are hot and fun and add excitement and spice to life! I will probably add a few more to my list before I tire of them.

I don't see things sexual as sleazy, but there are some things that don't interest me and I don't choose to do them. You won't see me pouring hot wax on DonMike's nipples but if he likes it, more power to him!! DonMike probably wouldn't want to join me in an impromptu whipped cream swallowing contest at the Pendulum either, but he would be just fine with me enjoying it.
I did have lots of sexual hangups but shed them like a dirty pair of underwear when I moved out of Iowa. Damn life is good now~

Oh, and I guess the topic was "what is the first part of a guy you look at"
I look at his torso--from waist to shoulders. And then eyes. Brown eyes make me melt like a Dairy Queen dip cone in August.

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Originally Posted by Sana Chan

I always look at the face for some slanted eyes. My Asian fetish forces it.

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:yeah: Then their legs and ass.

Andy is the man. I also look at feet. For some odd reason I just can't date a guy unless he actually shows he can take care of his feet. No gross toenails or anything.

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Originally Posted by Sana Chan

Andy is the man. I also look at feet. For some odd reason I just can't date a guy unless he actually shows he can take care of his feet. No gross toenails or anything.

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ME TOO!

I feel so normal now hahah

Ah of course its normal. If they take the time to take good care of the their body, not just in the chucky dept or such just in personal grooming, it can say alot about them.

face/eyes/a** and in that order! , but all that means very little if he can't carry on a two-way conversation.

jim

Oh! Face, eyes, mouth, and crotch in that order.

face, abs, cock size.. cute face, smooth chest, defined abs, 8+ gets me going.. think of a hung Justin from QAF.. I would say I like twinks, but I hate to use the word. It generates so much negative reaction in here.

but as far as cock size i have enough for both of us. but i can be a bit of a size queen at times.

If its not there in his face, then I ignore him, but if that is there then it is stomach, legs, back, ass, and the cock's gotta back it all up or I'm done.

Face, nails, and feet :)

face first. then hair - or shape of head if shaved. if that works, body. i love slender - even a little skinny. from there - depends on how it's gone so far.

maxpower - a little sleazy sex can be a beautiful thing if it's done right. not only filthy dirty fun, but a great way to blow away the cobwebs that middle class or christian living may have left on one's sexuality.

why judge something you very obviously don't understand?

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Originally Posted by basschick

face first. then hair - or shape of head if shaved. if that works, body. i love slender - even a little skinny. from there - depends on how it's gone so far.

maxpower - a little sleazy sex can be a beautiful thing if it's done right. not only filthy dirty fun, but a great way to blow away the cobwebs that middle class or christian living may have left on one's sexuality.

why judge something you very obviously don't understand?

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Just because I say that I don’t like sex in public bathrooms, suddenly now I am a prude, bigot, or a religious nut that’s really fucked up. I really don’t want to argue about it, but if I said I love to have sex in my local park with random people no one would have had any problem with that at all :5ymca:

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Originally Posted by chadknowslaw

I also think sex in places where there is the chance of discovery is hot! Put me down for having sex in a dressing room at the mall.

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Great, remind me to keep an eye on you next time you come in to Mr. S to try on chaps. :huh:

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You won't see me pouring hot wax on DonMike's nipples but if he likes it, more power to him!!

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Why stop at the nipples? :shifty:

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Originally Posted by maxpower

Well I did not say that no one in the gay community have morals, but we are going to have to agree to disagree about this seemingly “Liberated sexuality” being a positive thing. I believe it is more a ken to people own personally worlds orbiting around their cocks, and is one of the biggest problem in our community. I also think this is a big part of why most gay people can not be in a stable relationship, and that hurts us all.

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I think the issue here is that you are not just stating that you, personally, don't like a certain type of sex, it's that you seem to look down on those that do. I don't know if that was your intention, but it's the way it came off. Maybe it's not the things you say but simply the way you say them. I'm having that problem with a member of my leather club. He will often state an opinion in such a way that comes off as if he were saying "I'm right and you're wrong" rather than it just being his opinion. I know when I'm disagreeing with someone I read my post first to make sure I don't sound like I'm putting the other person down. :)