Good points, Keith. I think it's safe to say that most men in general hate condoms, and think of them as a nuisance--a necessary evil. What's more, most porn companies have not yet dealt with condoms in a way that is honest and accurate. Another reason why bareback porn can be appealing to some of us--the authenticity of the moment, compared to the fabrication and dishonesty of a lot of what we see in mainstream, condom-only porn.Quote:
Originally Posted by Titanmen
I hate the way that most porn companies incorporate condoms into their videos. Why do the models never talk about it? Why doesn't anyone say, "Do you have rubbers?" Or like when guys hook up a bathroom and they just happened to have condoms on them. The "magic condoms" used in most porn films--to me--destroys the momentum a scene had going for it.
If we truly want to encourage gay men to use condoms, why not DEAL with using condoms in our porn movies? When gay men get together in real life to have sex, we have that talk. We take that moment. To ignore that (much like producers present all the characters in porn scenes as gay--another major pet peeve of mine) because--as many say--"it destroys the fantasy," is detrimental to the message we claim we are trying to send.
I guess that's my point. Much like people say, "Nobody wants dialogue in their porn movies" because it is rarely treated as anything other than an inconvenience, a lot of us say "Nobody wants to see condoms" because porn producers are not effectively dealing with their inclusion in the movies.