Secret Crush

I actually think that the inverse of this probing question would be just as probing:

How do you handle someone who has a secret crush ON YOU?

Steve

Judging by the length of this thread, it'd make a great show.

I had a crush on someone when I was a younger, I never told them. The whole thing totally broke my heart. I think it was worse than rejection. I should have said something.

But resently I have experienced rejection for the first time. And it really hurt and still does. I can't seem to get over it. What's worse is they turned me down for a guy who is not a good guy at all. Jealous and controlling. I don't think i want to be rejected again.

I think I'll just shut down emotionally all together.

Jasun, I've seen you around the village before.

Mac Daddy,
You just broke my heart with that post, I think that is so sad.
Whoever hurt you (I know who ) but anyway, whoever hurt you is not good enough for you. You are an amazing guy with many specials gifts and talent, not too mention you are hot. So deal with what they have done , learn from it and grow, don't live in it.
Don't shut down emotionally , there is someone out there waiting on you and if you never take a chance you will never live. So go out there and know that you the hottest damn thing since bread and you LIVE OUT LOUD!

You're so sweet darren, I didn't mean to bring the thread down...

Bbay , you did not bring the thread down, I am making sure that you don't go down..... well at least emotionally lol

I have a secret crush but I can't say who it is because they post on this board. I have no idea if they know or not.

Mark

I forgot all about this thread... and it was a cute one.

and me and Scorpio are now boyfriends.. so I guess I should have kept my mouth shut.

oh well.

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Originally posted by IntenseCash.com
I have a secret crush but I can't say who it is because they post on this board. I have no idea if they know or not.

Mark

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I'm very curious... actually i'm being nosy LOL who is he?

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Originally posted by Scorpio
I'm very curious... actually i'm being nosy LOL who is he?

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haha I can never tell you. It is one of the first people I met in person in this business and that the only clue you get.

Mark

you're bad! now i'm gonna have to email everybody in here LOL

I hope I am not so out dated that I am now posting on this thread like a month later.
If I am on time then how cute that somneone found this thread and is still keeping it alive.
I actually am now dating my secret crush so I AM VERY HAPPY now, well that and the divorce from the first husband is over. lol

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Originally posted by MacDaddy

But resently I have experienced rejection for the first time. And it really hurt and still does. I can't seem to get over it. What's worse is they turned me down for a guy who is not a good guy at all. Jealous and controlling. I don't think i want to be rejected again.

I think I'll just shut down emotionally all together.

Jasun, I've seen you around the village before.

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Um... I hope that only the last part was aimed at me, and not the first part too... Cuz... MacDaddy... if I had been so silly as to reject you, then I deserve the fleas of a thousand camels infesting my armpits.

hee hee

Wow,
FIrst of all , Macdaddy I can't imagine ANYONE (sane enough) to reject YOU.

you two need to be on my show lol

Can You Have A Crush On Someone While In A Relationship! , I Would Say Yes! , I Think It's More A Case Of "Lust" But What Makes It Worst Is That He Is One Of My "Models" , So I've Seen/Felt "The Goods" And I Am Friends With His Wife! , Everything Is Very Professional And We Haven't Done/Said Anything "Overetly-Sexual" But It Does "Boil My Blood" , I'd Probably Faint If He Ever Kissed Me!:)...I Really Have To Stop Hiring Straight Guys!:)

Sincerely - "Sucker For Straights"

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Originally posted by Darren Austin
Wow,
FIrst of all , Macdaddy I can't imagine ANYONE (sane enough) to reject YOU.

you two need to be on my show lol

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That would be an interesting situation. I have had many crushes while with my boyfriend and visa versa but then again we dated a guy together at the same time so we are very open minded. That would be hard to have a crush on a model you see naked and feel his goods. Maybe you could tell your boyfriend that you have this crush and have him sit in on a photo shoot, I don't know.

Mark