fyrflygrl, I totally understand and I'm right there with ya. I am a social butterfly, I will work a room like there is no tomorrow. But when it comes to flirting, I'm a total dud. Someone looks at me and I turn away. If I see someone I like I'll get all nervous or red faced if he comes anywhere near me. It's just pathetic. If I'm introduced or if I like someone I already know a little, then it's not so bad, but when I'm just out and being flirty, it just doesn't work.
So there you have my not-so-glamerous secret. :)