About the movie "Three Dancing Slaves"..

This was a VERY hot movie for more than one reason, and while I understand the family was both CLOSE and APART, the scene where the two younger brothers are laying naked in the arms of their older brother (HOT!) while their dad is staring at them from the end of the bed sitting on a chair in his underwear..made me go.."UMM..?"

Don't get me wrong..HOT scene..but, was that just an erotic moment thrown in for the movie..or was these brothers a LOT closer than I thought?
May have to see the movie again to pick up on any subtlties I missed.

Btw..SEATTLE is going to the SUPER BOWL!! OH YEAH! More testosterone!!

Seattle and Pittsburgh... this could be fun... but wish Chris Simms was going..:honest:

Was it an Indian story? I just recently watched a program .. one of the learning channels, about society in India. Attachements and love between men is really the norm. Boys having no contact with girls, before they are married, form bonds that don't end on the wedding day.

Untill the English took over, and forced Western thinking and religion on a whole culture, it was accepted and encouraged.

Yeah, I saw the title and saw a pic from Three Dancing Slaves but when I found out it wasn't a musical about bdsm, like I had thought, I lost interest. :5ymca: :whip:

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Originally Posted by gaystoryman

Seattle and Pittsburgh... this could be fun... but wish Chris Simms was going..:honest:

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I'm from Pittsburgh and my mom was so excited about this. She was also mortified that I really don't care. LOL! Go figure.

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Originally Posted by Slade

This was a VERY hot movie for more than one reason, and while I understand the family was both CLOSE and APART, the scene where the two younger brothers are laying naked in the arms of their older brother (HOT!) while their dad is staring at them from the end of the bed sitting on a chair in his underwear..made me go.."UMM..?"

Don't get me wrong..HOT scene..but, was that just an erotic moment thrown in for the movie..or was these brothers a LOT closer than I thought?
May have to see the movie again to pick up on any subtlties I missed.

Btw..SEATTLE is going to the SUPER BOWL!! OH YEAH! More testosterone!!

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I think it was just showing how close the brothers were, not necessarily that they were having sex with each other. Europeans are traditionally much more open about sex and nudity than we are in the States, and I think the movie was representational of that.

Loved the scene where all the dudes were jerking off while watching porn in the same room. That was hot. Kept waiting for more of them to have sex with each other. :)

I doubt many others have seen this movie yet, or even know of its existence. I reviewed it several months back.

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Originally Posted by XXXWriterDude

I think it was just showing how close the brothers were, not necessarily that they were having sex with each other. Europeans are traditionally much more open about sex and nudity than we are in the States, and I think the movie was representational of that.

Loved the scene where all the dudes were jerking off while watching porn in the same room. That was hot. Kept waiting for more of them to have sex with each other. :)

I doubt many others have seen this movie yet, or even know of its existence. I reviewed it several months back.

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ARAB (Mom was Arab) brothers lying together naked in bed? Yeah, it's France..but still..I mean..we HAVE to draw a line SOMEWHERE for European morals don't we? LOL!!

And yeah..that scene with the dude jerking off in front of all the other guys, the guy putting his vibrating phone to his crotch while watching straight porn & moaning, and then of course the middle son fucking a tranny while 2 other guys are standing there watching him do him/her (and waiting thier turn), is a VERY typical of European straight boys eh???

There WERE some very gorgeous boys in that movie..especially the youngest brother's boyfriend! YUM! HOT ARAB!

If you haven't seen this movie..HIGHLY recommend it!

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Originally Posted by Madame0120

Was it an Indian story? I just recently watched a program .. one of the learning channels, about society in India. Attachements and love between men is really the norm. Boys having no contact with girls, before they are married, form bonds that don't end on the wedding day.

Untill the English took over, and forced Western thinking and religion on a whole culture, it was accepted and encouraged.

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Arab..not Indian..but close to same type of societies.
But I think this was a tad CLOSER attachment than the norm..;)

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Originally Posted by gaystoryman

Seattle and Pittsburgh... this could be fun... but wish Chris Simms was going..:honest:

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Man..if Hassleback only had HAIR (Sorry Xstraightguy!)..man..would he ever be sooo HOT!

I'd love to be on the Seattle defensive line..cuz I'd LOVE to tackle "Big Ben"!
Man..I'd nose dive right at his crotch and bring him down! LoL!

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Originally Posted by XXXWriterDude

not necessarily that they were having sex with each other.

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Out of curiosity..do you think they were?

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Originally Posted by Slade

Out of curiosity..do you think they were?

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Nawwww. Wishful thinking. :)

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Originally Posted by Slade

Arab..not Indian..but close to same type of societies.
But I think this was a tad CLOSER attachment than the norm..;)

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Never having that kind of sexual contact in my history, with a sib, can only wonder .. is it just our culture that disallows natural childhood curosity? Our whole block of kids got caught playing show- me- yours games in a garage. We were shooed off and told if we couldn't keep our cloths on, there was yard work to be done. We scattered.

Cira 2006 it would have been on CNN,

What a World!

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Originally Posted by Slade

ARAB (Mom was Arab) brothers lying together naked in bed? Yeah, it's France..but still..I mean..we HAVE to draw a line SOMEWHERE for European morals don't we? LOL!!

And yeah..that scene with the dude jerking off in front of all the other guys, the guy putting his vibrating phone to his crotch while watching straight porn & moaning, and then of course the middle son fucking a tranny while 2 other guys are standing there watching him do him/her (and waiting thier turn), is a VERY typical of European straight boys eh???

There WERE some very gorgeous boys in that movie..especially the youngest brother's boyfriend! YUM! HOT ARAB!

If you haven't seen this movie..HIGHLY recommend it!

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OMG, what kind of movie IS this???? I may have to go see it afterall. :woof:

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Originally Posted by Madame0120

Never having that kind of sexual contact in my history, with a sib, can only wonder .. is it just our culture that disallows natural childhood curosity? Our whole block of kids got caught playing show- me- yours games in a garage. We were shooed off and told if we couldn't keep our cloths on, there was yard work to be done. We scattered.

Cira 2006 it would have been on CNN,

What a World!

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I had an interesing discussion with a friend over the subject of incest. Our ideas of it in our culture are really screwed up. At least here in the states. I don't know what the views are internationally.

Okay, here in America you are not supposed to have sex with someone in your own family. This comes from the idea that when people of the same bloodline reproduce it causes physical problems in the offspring. Now, if you are adopted, you are not often given any information on your birth partents. So it is morally wrong to have sex with someone in your adopted family, even though it would not cause the same physical problems in the offspring because you do not share the same bloodline. However, you could go off and have sex with someone else who just may be your own sister, or cousin or even mother and never know it, causing the problems with the offspring. I know they do the bloodtest when you get married, but really, how many people have kids out of wedlock and never know what kind of DNA they are mingling.

Now, what if you are gay? Having sex with someone in your bloodline would have no physical ramifications whatsoever, yet we are still bound by the idea that incest is morally wrong.

This all came out of a conversation I had with a friend of mine. He told me that when he was younger he used to have sex with his brother. My first reaction was that it was nasty and wrong. But when he asked me why I felt it was nasty and wrong, I really didn't have an answer. You have two consenting adults (they were in their late teens) who are hurting nobody. What's the big deal? Then I realized that being adopted and gay, I could have very well slept with a brother or my own biological father (I do like older men).

So I've learned to rethink my ideas on this. I guess it's easy for me because there is nobody in my family that I've ever been remotely attracted to, so it's not like it's something I'm really going to have to face for myself, heh heh. But even so, I'm not quite so freaked out by the idea of it anymore.

ah ... cultural differences :)
Haven't seen the movie so the scene might as well be about sex. But it also could be about them being close with no sexual feelings at all.

At the sight, or thought, of scenes like people tend to automatically think it's sexually based. Which while sometimes true, isn't always.

My dad likes to walk around in his boxer briefs constantly, sometimes if we watch TV together I'd put my head on his leg and he'll scratch my back or hair. Often he'd lay in bed, yes in his underwear, and since i like being scratched a lot he'd do it to wake me up.

People would gasp and howl omg how can this be, to them we might as well just end up fucking. When I say they're the ones thinking about sex and not me, they get embarassed :).

To me it's all normal and something that happens.

Our society is rather messed up in many, MANY ways, in case we haven't figured any of this out yet, especially when it comes to sex.

Personally, I've never really had any problems with family members playing around with each other here and there. But I suppose that comes with not being attracted to my own father or brother. (I did, however, play around with a cousin or two of mine when we were little kids and in our early teens. I enjoyed it. And I'm sure if I had a brother who was drop-dead gorgeous (and who was open to the idea), I would have been all over his ass growing up. Big deal.) But the idea of two brothers getting it on REALLY gets me hot. I've often ended up calling a guy "big brother" or "little brother" while fooling around in bed, and they get REALLY turned on too. Is it the taboo nature of it that does that for us?

Everyone remembers Flowers in the Attic, right? I mean, it's one of the most popular-selling novels of all time, and it was all about incest between a brother and a sister. People ate that shit up. (I always wondered just what kind of childhood V.C. Andrews had as a young girl. All of her books dealt with incest in some way.)

One of my favorite movies is For a Lost Soldier, a beautifully executed and emotionally devastating film about a young boy who falls in love with a Canadian soldier during World War II. Obviously, adult-child sex is a major no-no in most cultures (and admittedly, for very good reason; for the record, I'm not an advocate of pedophilia at all), but we also forget that adult-child sex was the norm in Greek and Roman cultures. It was a rite of passage, a way for young boys to be initiated into manhood by their elders. And that's pretty fuckin' hot in my eyes. Hell, I would have killed for an older men to have broken me in when I was 14, 15, 16. That would have rocked my world -- in a good way! :)

Everything that we tend to frown upon in the U.S. is widely accepted and even encouraged in other cultures and countries. We have all these ideas about how sex fucks us up, b/cuz, quite frankly, we are fucked up about sex. We are uncomfortable dealing with it, and we have no idea how to accept the varying expressions of it that are most often very natural human tendencies, so we place everything in these little boxes and label them "right" and "wrong" and if you don't fit into those boxes, you're a deviant or a sick pervert or whatever. So I've just learned to make my own rules in order to govern my life, not accept a radically repressed and shame-obsessed country's archaic notions of what constitutes "right" and "wrong," "moral" and "immoral" or "appropriate" and "inappropriate" sexuality.

People tend to look at me with raised eyebrows when I talk this way. I just don't govern my life by the same rules and regulations as everyone else does. If that makes me perverted in others' eyes, then so be it. It's their issue to deal with, not mine. :)

I have found it to be quite interesting that a number of my friends who were either the youngest brother, or next to the youngest brothers in a family where there were at least 3 brothers, had rather intense sex with their brothers.

Now..my friends I speak of are gay..so I guess that doesn't suprise me.
What does suprise me are the # of older straight brothers that took their younger ones for a "ride".

I was in the bedroom of a friend of mine when I was a Senior in high school and he slept in a bunk bed with his younger brother (who was..oh 13 or 14 at the time) and the lil bro comes into the room (the older brother was grabbing something to eat in the kitchen) and proceeds to tell me how often he plays "santa claus" with his older bro. I say "HUH"? And he explains.."oh, my bro just starts pretending he is comming down the chimney with his pajama bottoms off and so he's dangling over the side of the bed and I just suck on him."

I was DUMBFOUNDED!

I had two sisters! DAMN!

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Originally Posted by Slade

I have found it to be quite interesting that a number of my friends who were either the youngest brother, or next to the youngest brothers in a family where there were at least 3 brothers, had rather intense sex with their brothers.

Now..my friends I speak of are gay..so I guess that doesn't suprise me.
What does suprise me are the # of older straight brothers that took their younger ones for a "ride".

I was in the bedroom of a friend of mine when I was a Senior in high school and he slept in a bunk bed with his younger brother (who was..oh 13 or 14 at the time) and the lil bro comes into the room (the older brother was grabbing something to eat in the kitchen) and proceeds to tell me how often he plays "santa claus" with his older bro. I say "HUH"? And he explains.."oh, my bro just starts pretending he is comming down the chimney with his pajama bottoms off and so he's dangling over the side of the bed and I just suck on him."

I was DUMBFOUNDED!

I had two sisters! DAMN!

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Did you ask this guy anything about how it started, or how he felt about it? Was it no big deal to him? I wonder how -- if at all -- it affected him as an adult, or if he and his brother ever talk about it.

One of my teenage fuck buddies told me that he and his straight half-brother Dan had gotten drunk and sucked each other off several times. I was always, like, "Next time that happens, can you invite me over to watch?" :)

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Originally Posted by XXXWriterDude

Did you ask this guy anything about how it started, or how he felt about it? Was it no big deal to him? I wonder how -- if at all -- it affected him as an adult, or if he and his brother ever talk about it.

One of my teenage fuck buddies told me that he and his straight half-brother Dan had gotten drunk and sucked each other off several times. I was always, like, "Next time that happens, can you invite me over to watch?" :)

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You kiddin'?? This was in KANSAS..where you didn't even talk about STRAIGHT sex let alone gay incestual sex! LOL

Nope..didn't ask him a single question about it. After he told me I just got up and walked out of the room feeling strangely repulsed and tittilated at the same time! He told me the whole thing with a big "doesn't everyone do this type of thing?" attitude though. The older bro was definitely straight (well, as far as I knew/know..whatever happened to the younger bro I don't know)