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I also was wondering where Bell has been, and finally saw her online tonite and learned that a very close family member was hit head on in a car crash monday nite ... needless to say, she's had a rough week and is exhausted. The person has been moved from ICU but things are still pretty bleak ... but, I'll let her provide details later as I don't want to intrude on their family privacy, but do keep her and the family member in your thoughts and prayers.
OMG! Bell if there is anything at all you need doing while this is happening please dont hesitate to contact me.
Sending prayers and warm thoughts your way.
Regards,
Lee
Bell,
[bearhug]
Dzinerbear
Bell!
I will keep you all in my thoughts and affirmations!
Keep positive thoughts.
***HUGE HUGS***
Gary
bell - i'll keep a head full of good thoughts going your way
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.
Allan
sending prayers and positive energy your way sweetie. you and yours are loved worldwide.
Prayers and best wishes for a quick and complete recovery for the entire family
My thoughts and prayers are with you Bell.
CA
what a sweet thing for you to do Bec - posting this ...
thank you...
thank you all for your prayers and well wishes...
update - she's been released from the hospital...
she will recover... not 100%... but she will be
able to eventually walk again... may take a year or
so...
she's still in pain... but she's a brave little spirit...
she'll be fine... I stayed nearly round the clock in the
hospital... and then she went to a handicapped accessible
place for one week and I went with her stayed 24/7...
then I offered to bring her to my house instead to be able
to care for her AND get back to work (have to pay the bills
somehow....) so we're here at my house now...
been her almost 2 days... allot of adjustments to be made
and had to also move everything she owned where she lived
before the accident into storage and let her bring a trailer
full here... gave her 2 rooms of my home... and working
a little at a time to get her things settled in and mine
moved out of the way and into storage... allot of work yet
to do... but I am still happier here even though it adds
allot of work to move belongings and furniture...
when I get a chance in a few days... I'll post the pics of
what was left of her car after the head on collision at 50+ miles
an hour... it wasn't a pretty site... when I was called to the
accident scene she was still trapped in the vehicle they needed
to cut her out of the car... it was slightly after midnight
and she was on her way home... she had some take out food in the
car and a couple packets of barbaque sauce... those packets
burst and were all over the dash board and her car radio and
steering wheel... when I pushed past the paramedics and police
to put my head into the car and my check up against hers to kiss
her to let her know I was THERE... I saw all that and thought
it was blood... and knowing she'd already been trapped injured
in the vehicle for more than 30 minutes... I didn't think she
would surrive till they could get her out...
it was the all time worst experience of my life...
thank you all for your prayers - it means the world to me...
with much love....
~Bell
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bell - the experience sounds awful, but thank god she is alive!
I know the days and months ahead are going to be full of extra stress for you both, but I'm so glad to hear she was released and that you were able to take her home. Continuing to send loving thoughts and healing for you both.
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Originally posted by basschick
bell - the experience sounds awful, but thank god she is alive!
I agree...
she's got a whole lot of life yet to live...
she's such a blessing to me...
thanks...
~Bell
having frineds like YOU make a BIG difference...Quote:
Originally posted by Bec
I know the days and months ahead are going to be full of extra stress for you both, but I'm so glad to hear she was released and that you were able to take her home. Continuing to send loving thoughts and healing for you both.
(I mean that most sincerely....)
~Bell
Bell...I don't have any great words, and I'm not quite the wordsmith Bec is (yet)...But I know that the knowledge of thoughts from friends and family is, on some level, comfort and support enough. You know you are part of this family. We are all thinking of, and praying for you...whatever prayer means to each of us.
If there's anything more I can do at any time, please don't hesitate to let me know.
I know i'm new here and don't know you yet Bell but you are such a great and loving person! To do everything you have done is so awesome and not everyone would have made the choices you made that were "self sacrificing" I'm glad that your friend is going to be ok and she must be a helluva fighter to make it through and have the determination to get through it and walk again! You all will be in my thoughts!
*hugs* Angel
Jason... thanks for the kind words sweetie... (you're such a doll)
Angel - it's not my friend - it's my adult daughter she
had just turned 21... thanks for your kind words though...
she lived at home (techincally) but stayed here and there
with frends and her older brother so her stuff was spread out
all over dayton... had to collect it all and store it all...
I'm glad she's home MORE now... just wish it were under
different circumstances... she'll be going back to college now...
at least that is our plan... so she can refocus her life
and figure out something she can do from a seated position
75% of the time...
hugs to all...
~Bell
p.s. the alyTV.com TV show is about to start I better hurry
up over there...
oops sorry :( I told you I didn't know you yet ;) I hope to get to know you more as time goes on though! I'm glad that your daughter is doing better *hugs*
Bell!
I'm still keeping good thoughts and positive energy for you and your daughter!!!!!
Know that all of you are in our thoughts.
Gary
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Originally posted by Gary-Alan
Bell!
I'm still keeping good thoughts and positive energy for you and your daughter!!!!!
Know that all of you are in our thoughts.
Gary
thanks GA... (hugs...)
~Bell