What Turns You On About A Guy?

Oh and i dont just mean generally, what single thing turns you on about a guy (or a girl for the ladies and straight guys) when it comes to sexual attraction?

You also just cant say the 'overall package' because that is a cop out LOL

For me, i know this sounds really weird, but i actually get turned on by a guy that can actually hold an intellectual conversation, about anything... If i can actually sit down and talk to a guy about several things and feel like the person actually knows what he is talking about with his responses, even if they are wrong or different views to my own, i actually find that a greater turn on that a hot smooth 20 something year old bottom with a tight ass and a 6-pack lol

So what about the rest of you folks, what turns you on sexually when it comes to guys/girls?

Regards,

Lee

Same here, Lee... conversation is a total turn on for me

I'd love to date somebody and not see him during that date - like in one of those restaurants where it's pitch black, no lights at all, you eat in darkness, drink and talk (like bling people do). If after that dinner you still have something to talk about its great - if not... oh well :D

1) Cute guys attract my attention - but I tend to forget them as soon as
they pass by - like the interchancable cover models on the magazines.

2) Then there are guys _I_ put my attention to (different from above!) are somewhat older - like 30/35, handsome looking, havent shaved for a couple days... the memory lasts slightly longer than (1)

3) Guys who stick out form the surrounding group get special attention - like a guy in the midst of a gucci and prada teeny groud - like DonMike or Jason in the midst of models.
Then if that type of guy can hold a conversation it's great and it made my day and I think about them a lot cuz they touched me. I am attracted to guys who can talk about general stuff, experiences and things they learned and not just about gucci, D&G and the newest styles. On a first date a conversation about global politics or religious things is well possible if it drifts into that direction.
It does not attract or affect me if somebody is a CEO, a multimillionaire, unemployed, employed, famous, influential or whatever shit - I care for the person. A turn off however is something like "I am a well paid doctor and I would like to meet you".

4) the type of guy I would have sex with? I dunno - I can't tell. Its something I decide when it's time for a decision - he might be older, younger, better looking, more uhm.... yeah - I have to special type of guy for that BUT guys of (1) and (2) would never make it.

so - nuff confusion :D

Intelligence, nerdiness, nice teeth

wit and a nice smile can jump someone from a 5 or a 6 to an 8 or a 9 in a heartbeat

smoothness

1. Hands with veins.

2. Guys with their result's higher than zero in this algorithm:
Height in cm
minus 100
minus weight in kg
minus age
plus 10 if non smoker
(which in general means guy must be young or extremely skinny, or extremely high).

Brains and a crazy streak.

I guess that I am very shallow...if I want conversation I have my smart boyfriend for that...so when we hookup with a guy for sex the only thing I am interested in is a perfect body.

My taste is toward conventional movie star good looks. And just like everyone else, when it comes to specific niches, I always gravitate to "best in breed".

Looks aside, if a guy is at least moderately handsome and makes it clear he's into ME (which is very rare), it's a done deal.

big boned (not fat) and str8 acting with a little body hair :high:

Handsome faces are the first things I notice. Guys in 30s/early 40s, a few days unshaven, rugged, decent shape, masculine, and can make me laugh. I guess basically young daddy types in a nutshell.

I'm oddly strict about facial hair. Some guys are rugged enough to do it for me when cleanshaven, but at least some kind if fuzz always helps a lot.

i like blonde guys :)

Tude and IQ
I hate guys with the I'm better looking then you tude going on and so bossy you wanna slap them down. If they are down to earth and can talk about something other then the latest movie I'm good to go...

True story:

A blind date and I went to a movie. It was The Mummy, *showing my age here* and when the first scarabs were in the film the guy turns to me and states wtf was that... I said I think we need to leave I'm feeling ill... I knew at the moment we weren't going to click on a mental level...
I also dated a guy that was dripping sexuality. Everyone in the neighborhood told me to give them his number when I was done. turns out he was a compulsive pain in the butt. No manners he thought his looks excused him from any sort of human etiquette. I was slinging numbers out to anyone that wanted one in about 2 weeks.:wolf:

1. Intelligence, dumb guys are only good for a suck.
2. Good conversationalist, refer to 1.
3. Someone who is flirty, I love to flirt.
4. Some facial hair, tattoos & piercings are a plus.
5. I love Latinos, Hispanics, Mexicans, etc...
6. Nice body, doesn't have to be a bodybuilder or anything, just as long as they aren't a fat-ass like me, LOL!
7. Great sense of humor if make me laugh, you make me wet!
8. A bit of a nut-bucket, I'm crazy enough for two people, so just a hint of crazy please.
9. Average dick-size, I'm not a porn star so all that deep-throating & being pile-driven by a 12 inch cock ain't for me!
10. My Ma has to approve, LOL!

I think that's it, gee, I wonder why I'm single?

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Originally Posted by Teaser

Tude and IQ
I hate guys with the I'm better looking then you tude going on and so bossy you wanna slap them down. If they are down to earth and can talk about something other then the latest movie I'm good to go...

True story:

A blind date and I went to a movie. It was The Mummy, *showing my age here* and when the first scarabs were in the film the guy turns to me and states wtf was that... I said I think we need to leave I'm feeling ill... I knew at the moment we weren't going to click on a mental level...
I also dated a guy that was dripping sexuality. Everyone in the neighborhood told me to give them his number when I was done. turns out he was a compulsive pain in the butt. No manners he thought his looks excused him from any sort of human etiquette. I was slinging numbers out to anyone that wanted one in about 2 weeks.:wolf:

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I went on a date to see the first Mummy...that night I ended up pushing a 1982 diesel Mercedes sedan (all steel, heavy as hell!) up a hill and then walking several miles with a gas can because someone forgot not every gas station carried diesel. From then on, I always drove

neatness, good grooming, has a good disposition in life, jolly; still respect themselves even if they have a different preference on certain things. Positive outlook in life.

Strictly physically speaking: Face, chest, crotch, ass

More importantly, what totally turns me on sexually is honesty, loyalty, sense of humor, compassion, competitiveness, and artistic creativity :bananacock:

a cute face and killer butt!
the better the cushion the better the pushing lololoolol

To answer the specifics you asked: good looks, good personality, genuine and considerate, intelligent and communicative, affectionate, a body I like, common sexual interests. I can make a list of details, like a hot cock, smooth, hot hands, so forth, but I get proven wrong as much. I guess that means "it's" something that ultimately cannot be explained. Maybe there is something to whatever you want to call it - "pure attraction." That means I could like a variety of types depending on if that unexplainable pull is there.

If the guy is a jerk, selfish, it is a total turn off no matter what he looks like or otherwise.

What it all comes down to is if there is a sincere connection with him and me. Notice how a lot of the following is related. Affection, not the fake kind, is really important. I need that and give it. It's surprising and good to hear that communication is important to so many guys on this thread. So many people aren't good at this, even if they writing professionals. It's one of the main things for me. I like to share ideas, learn, and intelligence counts. Afer all, if we don't or can't understand each other, it's hard to get close. That definitely includes being able to express feelings clearly and fairly. Also mutual sensitivity and understanding. People have to like each other for who they are, and appreciate what's important to both of them. This is sounds like a corny ad but for me it's true.

Hard to say. I'm quite versatile and not fixed to a certain body type, hair color or other features for example. There are some turn offs of course, like too much body hair, but in general it's the overall picture that makes me hot for a guy.