i just spent an evening at the local club
alone
quiet
drinking
how does anyone meet anyone
i dont get it
i felt like i was the only person there alone
full moon
think ill just walk into the ocean
and see where i surface
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i just spent an evening at the local club
alone
quiet
drinking
how does anyone meet anyone
i dont get it
i felt like i was the only person there alone
full moon
think ill just walk into the ocean
and see where i surface
why didn't you go up to say hi to anyone?
The only way to meet people is to be brave enough to go up and say hello to them Dawgy, the worst they can say is no - they don't generally bite (unless you ask them to ;)) I used to be pretty nervous when it came to asking people out but then it hit me - If they don't wanna go out with me it's their loss not mine.
Good luck with the search :) :):)
Cheers,
Allan
i dont think ive ever just walked up to a random person & started talking. i never see anyone alone, so i dont want to interrupt.
well then start! go up to a person that's alone. go up to a couple people.
it does no good waitin for people to come up and talk to you, gettin' frustrated when they don't, and then complainin' afterwards that no one did.
obviously the sitting around alone waitin' for folks to come up approach ain't workin' so it's time to switch things up.
haha! unfortunately, i can relate, dawgy! most my encounters with guys are one-hit-wonders that I don't see again LOL - and boyfriend? HAHAHAHHAHAHA! forgot what that is!
Dale, this sounds like some kinda poetry noir, brings Barney Gumble's award winning "Pukahontas" to mind :PQuote:
Originally posted by Dawgy
i just spent an evening at the local club
alone
quiet
drinking
how does anyone meet anyone
i dont get it
i felt like i was the only person there alone
full moon
think ill just walk into the ocean
and see where i surface
What about me? I came up to you when you were standing alone at that bar in Ottawa... (ok so you were waiting for me)
I have no sympathy for you, with your warmth (and those eyes), if, as those perpetually happy guys always say, we "smiled once in a while" we would have no trouble... blah
Looking forward to seeing you on your own turf next month bud :woof:
how many times do i have to offer to teach you how to score before you freaking come to toronto and hang with me for the first of the five days you'll be here getting laid?
shees.
break the ice at a club as I do =
* VISA anyone??
Dawgy:Quote:
Originally posted by Dawgy
i just spent an evening at the local club
alone
quiet
drinking
how does anyone meet anyone
Sometimes I think we will go out to a bar, and psychologically set ourselves up for dissapointment. I mention that because I have observed myself behaving that way.
I have found that when I go out, and I have a good attitude without that junk in my head, I'll have a pretty fun night. Set your expectations.
Know your target market too. If I go to one of my regular night spots on Thursdays, I'll always get my ass grabbed by several black drag queens. That always seems now to get things off to a good start.
Steve
*Do one thing every day that scares you.*
Today I would reccommend that you walk up to the next cute guy you see and simply say hello. There are many places a conversation can go from there, but it only takes hello to start. I usually end up with some CHEESY shit like "I couldn't pass up the opportunity to introduce myself to the cutest guy in the bar" or "I like your shoes, wanna fuck?"
If, at first, you're too nervous to speak, try the eye contact thing. When you do finally talk, don't be afraid to admit that you were intimidated by his beauty...it will make him feel like the hottest stud in the room.
You know Dale, it really all just depends on what it is you're looking for. As I recall, you have a pension for young twinky boys. Remember when you were that age? Hell...remember the other night at the bar??? It's not easy to go up to people if you're not that comfortable with yourself. Most 18-23 year-olds I know don't even know who they are or want to be...so how can they be comfortable with that. The ones who do display assuredness and self-confidence tend to overdo it and become a little obnoxious. If you're looking for young guys, you have to be self-assured and confident. They don't have that and are looking for it. Why do you think you see so many young guys with older men? They want stability and a firm....hand...so to speak.
Just MHO.
LOL! I would just HAVE to sleep with you if you said that to me!!! LOLQuote:
Originally posted by 123Jason
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"I like your shoes, wanna fuck?"
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or walk up to someone that looks super friendly even if they
are with one or more people and say:
"you look like the friendliest bunch here - and I don't know
anyone here - if you were to introduce me to one person
here tonight, who would it be ??"
- then let them point him out...
then say:
"are you ready - let's walk over that way and you can introduce me..."
~Bell
is thursday nite good for you? :)Quote:
Originally posted by Socket2Jake
LOL! I would just HAVE to sleep with you if you said that to me!!! LOL
Quote:
Originally posted by Dawgy
is thursday nite good for you? :)
we'll ALL be in Florida Thursday night....
can I watch ??
LOL....
~Bell
Bars are better if you only go once in a while, and then only if you’re felling really “up”. If you go when you’re in sour mood things tend to go poorly.
But, let’s face it. Even on a good night you already know exactly what to expect: Early in the evening you decide where to go and what to wear. You may have a few drinks and listen to your favorite music. You get ready, check yourself a hundred times and then hit the club. The music it tight, and there are many babes. You see a few friends, have too many drinks, dance to your favorite songs, make eye contact with a few new guys, talk to some you’ve already scoped before, and avoid the ones that didn’t work out. If you’re lucky you go home with somebody and have sex, and sometimes it’s even good. Then you wake up much poorer and with a hang over.
But, that’s it. Isn’t it? It never really gets any better than that. That’s why it’s only good once in a while.
I try to balance it with going to concerts, going to movies, going to the gym, and going to dinner with people I don’t really like just for the challenge. I also hit other “pick-up” joints (you all do too, even if you don’t admit it).
But, most importantly, don’t ever get too upset about not meeting anyone. It’s like fishing. Just go again next Saturday.
Oh, and here is my best advice in a bar. If you see someone you like, make eye contact and SMILE!
Don’t be afraid.
And don’t forget the fucking smile!
:0)
