Taking Matters Into Your Own Hands...

OK, so last night I'm hanging out with a straight married couple having dinner and just chatting. The wife (we'll call her Jen) asks me out of the blue... "How long does it take you to jerk off? Is it like 30 seconds?" After spitting out my chicken I was eating, I was like... "Well, no, it takes a little longer than that." To which Jen said "Well it can't take that long, so why are porno's so long? Don't you only need like a few seconds." I said "I suppose that is true, but people like variety and don't want to see the same scene over and over." She then asked "Well I wonder how long it takes most people to masturbate? You should ask on a website."

So here we are! In the name of research...

When you masturbate... how long does it take you???

I won't be shy, I'll answer first. For me I'd say about 10 minutes or so. If I'm watching porn when I do it, I like to find a hot scene depending on what mood I'm in. And I don't like to just stroke and climax, but prefer to build up to it, and then hold off, so when it is finally time to blow... It is much more intense.

So how long does it take you? If I report back to my friend, all names will be changed to protect the innocent and the perverted.

Thanks!

(and Lee, if this is in the wrong forum, please move it to the correct place for me.)

I would have to agree with your 10 minutes estimate...for me that is the average when I am just wanting to whip a quick one off. It also depends on what I am looking at...how long it has been since I busted last. If it's a quicky before jumping out of bed (with morning wood) it might be half that time (5 minutes) especially if I was having a really hot dream!

Lee

Hmmm...sexy and interesting question...my favorite kind! Hehe...Well, it depends if I use a toy. If I do: 2-5 minutes...if I don't usually about 10-15.
I usually use the toys...it's faster that way. Lol :extat:

Thanks for asking...and since Jen brought it up, I'de like to know how long it takes her to get off. Hehe...since she's so curious, I am too. Lol :cheese:

Same - it all depends on the quality or reason for rubbin'.

If I've been 'hot & bothered' for sometime, I can get the job done in around 3-5 minutes, but a usual quickie is 10-15 minutes.

I am opposite of Lee, morning duties tend to take much longer than average so I usually ignore the urge - waste too much of the morning.

If I am feeling like I've been ignoring my buddy, and I want to give it something more than the average rose and box of chocolates, I'll caress it (with or without aids) for an hour, or so.

If it is for 'exercise' or 'practice' (point is to not ejaculate), I'll work it for a couple of hours, or more without reaching the end.

When by request (example:someone is watching but does not participate - I lost another game of cards), I may or may not finish.

If I'm watching a really hot porn scene (anything by Joe Gage), I can pop pretty quickly (within 5-10 mins) 'cuz I get so turned on by the seductions that I don't even get to see any of the actual sex. :)

Otherwise, 10-15 seems to be the norm.

It depends on so many things. If I haven't jacked off for a while, 2-3 minutes, otherwise 10-15 minutes. If I want to make it linger, maybe 30. Back in the day when I used to party, it could take an hour.

cheers,
Michael

As a baby I was born two and a half weeks premature.

All I'm sayin' is, I seem to have taken that through the rest of my life.

I often switch off and think about something like CCBill during sex so I can last longer LOL

Yah totally depends, when watching a porno I like to find the model I'm most attracted to and cum at the same time they do, so that could take me 15-20mins to time correctly hehehehe may have to do some rewinding and slow motion too. I agree that building up to the climax and not letting myself cum is nice, helps me shoot quite a load too. ;)

If I have help I cum much faster, if I'm just using my imaginination and alone it can take longer unless I have someone really hot to think of, which isn't difficult considering where I live.

Cheers,
DannyZ

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Originally Posted by SweetNSassy

Hmmm...sexy and interesting question...my favorite kind! Hehe...Well, it depends if I use a toy. If I do: 2-5 minutes...if I don't usually about 10-15.
I usually use the toys...it's faster that way. Lol :extat:

Thanks for asking...and since Jen brought it up, I'de like to know how long it takes her to get off. Hehe...since she's so curious, I am too. Lol :cheese:

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I just asked Jen...

:love: :love: 90 seconds! :love: :love:

(sorry for the double post, I tried to edit but it was too late).

I just got off the phone with her and she is surprised by the length of time you all posted, she assumed it was always just a minute or two!

Jen now wonders if you use your non-dominant hand, does it cause you to last longer???

If I'm jacked up enough, I can squeeze one out in about 1 minute.

But generally, I like to take my time and enjoy.. I can go for half an hour if I really take it easy and let it come out slow.

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Originally Posted by Goldie

(sorry for the double post, I tried to edit but it was too late).

I just got off the phone with her and she is surprised by the length of time you all posted, she assumed it was always just a minute or two!

Jen now wonders if you use your non-dominant hand, does it cause you to last longer???

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Hehehe...She rocks! :cheese:

I've actually never tried the other hand...Probably would make it take longer...I guess I've just never thought about it. :D

ccbill, huh? is that ccbill with or without visa? if with, does this mean visa is going to charge you an annual masturbation fee?

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Originally Posted by ArmpitLover

As a baby I was born two and a half weeks premature.

All I'm sayin' is, I seem to have taken that through the rest of my life.

I often switch off and think about something like CCBill during sex so I can last longer LOL

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all depends on the mood.............. and how long since last time i guess.

A website owner [not a client] told me his average surfer stayed on his site for a little over 14 minutes. My best guess, and his, was that 14 minutes was the time it took to find something he liked, jerk off, wipe off, and sign off.