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    Marc
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    How did your family react to you working in adult?

    Do they not care? Do they think its cute and funny? Do they have problems with it?
    Do they even know, ?


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    You do realize by 'gay' I mean a man who has sex with other men?
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    Dad started asking me for free porn LOL

    Regards,

    Lee


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    My family told me it was a pie in the sky dream and that I should get a “Real Job” that was over 3 years ago now. Maybe that is one of the reasons I put little stock in other people's criticism. :honest:


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    Paco
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    Being the type that does not pull punches, I told them how it is, on my first day, so there are no issues, really.
    Of course, being Italian, some of the males & females are apprehensive about gay porn (btw, to me that means both), but for the most part the mainstream popularity of our industry has helped.

    A good percentage of the members of la familia are liberal (in the true sense, not the diluted political def. of N.America) thinkers, so they really do not care, so long as it is not CP.

    It also helps that we really do not do 'shop talk', of any sort - many of us view work as an inconvenience of life and it does not take much to get away from the disease - talking about it is truly pointless.

    If anything, many are simply glad I did not stick with my third career choice (which is where I received the title 'Paco').


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    dannyz
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    Dad started asking me for free porn LOL
    Yeah mine too, I believe the first question was 'can you get me one of those passwords son?'

    Every now and then he tries to give me advice like 'have you seen those alt news groups? You could probably sell some memberships there.'

    I just would prefer not talk about it then thinking of my dad surfing porn. :egg:


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    skot
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    Quote Originally Posted by dannyz
    Yeah mine too, I believe the first question was 'can you get me one of those passwords son?'

    Every now and then he tries to give me advice like 'have you seen those alt news groups? You could probably sell some memberships there.'

    I just would prefer not talk about it then thinking of my dad surfing porn. :egg:
    , ditto. Dad started talking about his porn surfing habits... thinks I'd rather not know. :square:


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    GAYVNJeff
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    Both my parents have been in our offices and my mom's even made cheescake cupcakes for people here. I think growing up in the city next to Chatsworth, which is the straight porn capital, they already knew other people in the industry.


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    When I told her, my mom said that she was so very happy for me...... she had been worrying for years that my web business was not going anywhere. My life from 1997 to 2002 was taking all the small amounts I earned and putting it to keep the web server running and the T1 connection going....nothing else. Plus, I was only getting older, life was passing her son by... etc.

    And she certainly didn't mind no longer having to bail me out periodically with cash to pay my electric bills.

    Steve


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    my son, daughter and i originally started our business together. my daughter asked us to buy her out soon after (which we did) but my son and i are still business partners.

    my mom knows exactly what i do - i used to check my stats at her house when we'd visit


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    Life is a dick and when it´s get hard---just fuck it... DEVELISH's Avatar
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    My mom sometimes sits beside me, talking to me when I am doing galleries and cropping pics - then she leaves saying "how in the world can you look at penises all day long - it bores me to death just watching you"

    Guess our parents are just coool


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    Meant to be Obscene, not Heard. HotMaleVideos's Avatar
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    Haven't told my mom yet, but as always she'd probably seem indifferent.

    After coming out and eventually meeting the BF, I think I've dulled her senses down. LOL.


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    My mother said "You're going to get arrested, you know... that's illegal. I hear about that on the news all the time"

    But my mother is an idiot.

    She also told me that I was going to get arrested when I was a pop star and was remixing other people's music.

    She STILL tells me i'm going to get arrested, even though I've explained to her that porn isn't illegal.
    Jasun Mark. Crass of the Titans.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Jasun
    My mother said "You're going to get arrested, you know... that's illegal. I hear about that on the news all the time"

    ...

    She STILL tells me i'm going to get arrested, even though I've explained to her that porn isn't illegal.
    um, she's not with the Bush administration, is she? :-)


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    The Prince of Dorkness Jasun's Avatar
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    Well, she's Canadian, so no.

    And she's UBER liberal.

    but she lives in a remote part of the country and is terrified of the world.

    She doesn't understand what she hears on the news and just fills in the blanks.

    oh well.
    Jasun Mark. Crass of the Titans.


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    Xstr8guy
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    I finally told my mother two weeks ago that I no longer work for my previous employer and that I am now into "internet marketing". She didn't ask a single question after that. Lol.

    All of my siblings know and only one thinks it's bad. My most conservative sister is overjoyed. She thinks it's great that I work for myself. The sister that thinks it's bad is crazy and has a horrible gambling addiction... so it's not like I respect her opinion.

    Pretty much everyone I told needed to be reassured that I wasn't doing anything disgusting or illegal. And once I did that, that's when they start asking all of the fun questions. How do you make money? How much do you make? What are your sites? My niece even interviewed me for a college class paper, .


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