Bareback Sex - Is there really any difference here?

[jIgG]

and the models fucking bare are just a fantasy too

[Kewlaidkiddd]

I stick with the group of leaving the choice to the models and the fact that it is a fantasy group. The models know good and well before they enter into the situation that there are risks... and its their choice to refuse or accept the risk. I'm still baffled a lot of times that there is still much debate to this in the gay porn world whereas it is second nature to not even deal with condoms in the straight porn world. There are risks in each side of the industry and its up to the model to accept or deny those risks.

[TheLegacy]

Bareback Sex - Is there really any difference here?

yes - about 60$ and a better hotel room

[D-Rock]

"We all know it feels better with out one, and we all know the ramifications if we don’t wear one. [...] Basically we are adults, porn is for adults, adults that know the circumstances of safe sex."

What makes you think that "we all know the ramifications if we don't wear one?". You would be amazed at how many people do not know them. Not everyone receives the same education and not everyone knows the true ramifications.

Why do you think sensibilization/awareness efforts are being increased, not decreased? It has been shown that of those who bareback intentionnaly, many have a distorted view of what the real risks are. Few people even know what is the latency period and what it means.

In my life I've never met someone who did not know what a condom was or what would happen if they didn't use one. If you're old enough to legally be viewing porn, then you should have a pretty damn good idea what a condom can do for you.

And where is it "shown" that these barebackers have a distorted view of the risks of unprotected sex? Maybe thier distorted view is caused by something other than poor education; dont make me say what it is.

[XXXWriterDude]

In my life I've never met someone who did not know what a condom was or what would happen if they didn't use one. If you're old enough to legally be viewing porn, then you should have a pretty damn good idea what a condom can do for you.

And where is it "shown" that these barebackers have a distorted view of the risks of unprotected sex? Maybe thier distorted view is caused by something other than poor education; dont make me say what it is.

Evidently there are all kinds of pockets of the world with backwoods communities where kids are being educated in shacks with leaky roofs who have no idea what HIV is. At least that's what I'm led to believe, based on the number of people who tell me that I would be surprised to learn that SO MANY PEOPLE just don't understand the risks associated with having sex.

To be fair, I do have to acknowledge that I grew up in the "age of AIDS," when it was first announced, and I took it upon myself to look into the risks so I could learn what those risks were. I know about the 6-month, 3-month and 1-month latency periods; I know the risks of swallowing versus not swalowing. I know that simply by barebacking, the risk for me contracting HIV is much lower than if a guy comes in my ass, or if I've douched beforehand. I know that if I've brushed my teeth in the last 3 hours, it's best not to give head in case I brushed too hard. I know that HIV can only be contracted via access to my blood stream, and I know that although I can take all the precautions in the world, sometimes unforseen circumstances can lead to bad news.

Obviously, not everybody knows about these things. Perhaps not everybody cares to know. It's easier for some people to always have safe sex just to be on the "safe side," just as recovering drug addicts say they can never smoke pot lest it lead to them using crack again. For others, they do the things they feel most comfortable with. They self-reduce the risks and choose to accept responsibility for their actions. It's all good to me, as long as you are aware of your risks. I think you can sit and say all you want that porn producers have a certain responsibility toward this and that, but in the end, it really boils down to the individual and the choices they make in life, and the responsbility they have to themselves to get the facts and know the statistics before having sex.

That said, apparently these backwoods communities DO exist (again, so I'm told), and as I said in my previous post, it is commendable when any porn company takes the initiative to try and instill safe sex values in the movies they make. Again, I just wish they would do it more accurately and honestly, instead of just doing it for the sake of doing it.

I'd like to see more attention to ALL details in my porn, though; not just in regard to the matter of condoms. But that's just me. I'm more turned on intellectually (by things like dialogue, scenario, character and seduction) than I am by simply watching two guys have sex. But apparently I'm some kind of freak. Apparently everybody else only cares about the sex.

[abostonboy]

I know from personal experience my first two sex acts were baraback. And I didnt know the person at all. I guess I was lucky.

To be honest, I really didnt know how to use a condom.

The site I was thinking of doing was a bareback site. As many I felt there was a group of people that enjoy this. And though I disagree that unprotected sex is the way to go, I can't be judge and jury.

The site I was going to do was going to have all the porn stuff.

Then it was going to have a section, where we interviewed someone w/o showing face or anything, sorrta like a CIA agent appearing on a talk show and not be able to identify him. He's being interviewed w/ Back turned to camera. The goal was besides the regual porn too have someone talk about "What is it that really turns you on about BB" Is it the thrill of the risk, the fun part, or do you feel that the Drugs are so good know you are not worried."

Now, all these relpies make sense. But the fact that the person came on here shows he has doubt about if its something right. When you have doubt about something, then to be honest, I feel that it's not the thing for you to do.

I will offer a quote to Dizi from a book I am reading,

"The secret to making something work for you in your lives, is, first of all , the deep desire to make it work; then the faith and belief that it can work; then to hold clear definite vision in your conciousness and see it working out step by step, without one thought of doubt or belief."

IF you feel it's may not be right or have doubts, move on to something that will not make you lose sleep at night.

Who knows, there are many small towns in America and many people too shy to by them in even bigger cities, and those like me who like the best lube and the collest condoms, that you may make more money selling condoms and lube and safe sex toys.

BTW, I bought the docking toy after XXXwriter asked me to find s docking site and I couldn't. The only thing I could find was this cool docking toy. And IT FEELS GOOD!