Dating solution

[Pewit]

I have an existing site which has good traffic (1M+ visitors monthly) but doesn't yet have a dating facility. Does anyone have a suggestion for a dating script that fulfills the following criteria WITHOUT requring significant modification as those I have looked at seem very hetro orientated, too simple and/or overly complex to change

Alternatively, I might consider a hosted solution but only if the database is not centralised AND it fulfills most of the relevent criteria below.

- Search by role (top/bottom/versatile etc)
- Search by age (range set by individual year)
- Simple, location and power search based on profile type
- Support for couples (linked profiles) and groups
- Keyword search (from profile text)
- Primary interest search (relationship, date, etc)
- Age match search (match my age to the age the profile is looking for)
- Saved searches
- Include travellers in search (from temporary travel itinerarries)
- Profile Matching (match critiera weighted by importance)
- Attach images and video to profiles
- Private and public gallery
- Payments by PayPal and other billing systems
- Temporary travel itineraries
- Most viewed, popular, recent or random thumbnails on homepage
Messaging
- Send Online Message (restricted and unlimited)
- Sent Messages Log
- Message Thread
- Send “Flirt”
- Forwarding of Messages to Email Address
- Notification of new message by email
- Can attach photos to messages
- User managed pre-authored messages
- Bounce email warnings
Chat & Forums
- Online chat
- Cam Chat
- Who's online now display (thumbnail/filtered)
- Forum (discussion board)
Privacy
- Email address cloaking
- Abuse Management
- Blocking of users
- Message filtering
- One touch abuse reporting
Interaction
- Polls
- Image voting (photo rating)
- Random images on home page
International
- Multiple languages supported (EN, FR, GE, SP minimum)
Integration
- Uses php and MySQL

Regards

Paul

[Pewit]

I should add that I'm not looking for a complete custom-developed solution (for cost reason and others) nor do I want a product that doesn't have an existing installed base or a user community providing feeback and add-ons - so open-source or similar solutions are preferred.

Paul

[Lippi]

You already looked at http://www.azdg.com/ ? But it needs some modification.

[Pewit]

You already looked at azdg.com ? But it needs some modification.

Yes - but only the Platinum version of azgd (149 - 399 USD) provides the kind of facilities I want.

I also discovered datingsoftwaresupport.com which has a forum for discussion of the various commercial dating scripts as well as hosted solutions.

So currently I am looking at osDate from Tufat which is open source and seems to be taking over from aeDating due to the disputes and poor service from what was the market leader.

Paul

[XN28D]

I have treied a multitude of dating software solutions ... Dating Pro (what a Mess!) and a few others. Even the "Pro" versions suck when it comes to modifying the heterosexist foundation. I've recently looked at OS Date and will be trying it with a lesbian dataing site shortly. The changes are fairly easy.

You can look at allabouthealthyrelationships dot com and couplesdelite dot com as two examples of a PRO solution that costs money. With couplesdelite I spent even more money to modify the program.

Good luck!

Aaron