Straight men interested in violent Gay porn

[Squirt]

I read the Daily Record Q&A this morning and got to thinking. Could straight men really be interested in violent Gay porn? I can see the psychology of a straight man wanting to dominate another man, they do it all the time. Could this be a new trend if we supply more content?

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I'm addicted to violent gay porn - but I'm straight

Joan Burnie

Q I ENJOY looking at violent gay porn. It excites me in a way straight porn doesn't.

But I am also the straightest guy I know. I have a regular girlfriend, who knows I look at porn.

She's pretty relaxed about it. But if she knew it was gay porn, I don't think she'd be happy.

Don't, please, tell me I'm gay. I have never wanted to have sex with another man.

I only started looking out of curiosity, but now I can't stop.

A ALL right, you're not gay. If you want a word for your behaviour - other than stupid - try voyeurism.

Given that it's the violence which seems to turn you on as much as the sex, it's not nice and it's not clever.

Curiosity is no excuse. After all, it's the one paedophiles invariably use for their perversion.

So time to find another hobby before this one gets you into trouble.

[basschick]

pain is a funny thing - it sometimes seems to transcend regular sexual boundaries.

i've known several gay men who were into pain regardless of who caused it. a friend of a friend spent a day at pride a couple years ago egging me on to do nipple torture on him and cane him at a cage one of the bdsm clubs had set up. and although he's never had any sexual feelings toward women, he - i can only say flirted with me to get me to hurt him more. and that's not that unusual.

that all being said, looks to me like the guy isn't straight and can't admit it to himself. the specific type of gay porn allows him to lie to himself. after all, there's plenty of "violent" straight porn around.

[Lee]

I guess it also depends on the definition of 'violent'.

Im not adverse to having rough sex, but to me, that isnt 'violent' per se although, im sure others would think it would be.

I also like how the reply had connotations that it implied he could have pedophilic tendencies, because he was 'curious' so strange.

Regards,

Lee

[Squirt]

Curious wasn't it? The link made to pedophilia and violent porn. I think she was trying to say that curiosity is something that can get you in trouble and start you down the path to something with very negative consequences: i.e. He's not gay and likes seeing Gay men beat up, so he could end up being a Gay basher. Odd :eek:

I also like how the reply had connotations that it implied he could have pedophilic tendencies, because he was 'curious' so strange.

Regards,

Lee

[Cruisemaster]

"Violent" in the minds of many straight men would be as simple as taking anything up their ass. For most straight guys who might fantasize about gay sex, I suspect a great deal of the fantasy revolves around giving up control. Imagining the pleasure of what might happen if they allowed themselves to be "violated."

[Trixie]

"Violent" in the minds of many straight men would be as simple as taking anything up their ass. For most straight guys who might fantasize about gay sex, I suspect a great deal of the fantasy revolves around giving up control. Imagining the pleasure of what might happen if they allowed themselves to be "violated."

Totally.

Women have rape fantasies, but that doesn't mean they really wanted to be RAPED. For most guys who id as straight but get off on violent gay porn, this is probably the same thing; a rape fantasy. It's taboo, and that in itself is a huge turn-on: you've got rape fantasies, submission fantasies (taboo for men still), BIG HARD PECKERS (so taboo for straight guys), etc. plus the fear that if anyone found out they'd be humiliated/everyone would think they're freaks.

Some guys just love the thought of someone big and strong to stuff cocks and fists into all of their holes and hurt them so good. In my years of talking to men about their cockcentric fantasies, I've never heard any of them fantasize about doing violent things to other guys; if they are fascinated by that it's because they picture themselves on the receiving end.

[Trixie]

Thanks for the link, btw.

That woman who wrote the advice must be a fucking moron.