How Do You Handle It When...

[Lee]

Close friends come on to you sexually?

Have a friend who has been wanting to take things further than friendship with both Gary and I for the past couple of weeks and despite telling him politely that we value his friendship to much to do anything other than be friends with him, he doesnt seem to be getting it.

He's totally our type and everything, we just dont want to screw up a 6 year friendship by fooling around with the guy, we kinda like things how they are now, just hanging out and bs'ing over a few drinks.

We dont want to fall out with this dude over this but at the same time, we dont want to fuck around with him either or have things being uncomfortable whenever we hang out together.

Regards,

Lee

[basschick]

sounds like the friendship has already changed on his end if he's been coming onto you guys even after you let him know you didn't want to blow the friendship.

does he have other fuck buddies that he's successfully kept things simple with?