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    JFK is having a meltdown. Call 911 for emergency

    OMG people did you know there is more than one photographer that covers the adult webmaster gathers? Did you also know there is more than one hosting, billing, webdesign, an affiliate program out there? We have some serious problems. Competition in the marketplace exists.

    In the real world which some of you have lost touch with, there are a multitude of options for products and services. In the USA for example: Kinkos, Staples, Office Depot and UPS Store for printing needs. If your hungry for a hamburger there is McDonalds, Burger King, Carls Jr, Rallys, Fat Burger, In and Out, and thousands of other places.

    The reality is that most of you do not attend the shows, hence never having the opportunity to meet either myself, or the lead photographer Buster. Btw, everyone loves a little drama, I am the first one to check in at places like the Zoo, to give myself a minutes worth of entertainment and the same news I can find on CNN.

    Does the drama bother me personally? Yes and No. The fire which is fueled by posts submitted by friends of JFK, silly trolls, and those that dont know us, only brings awareness of NALEM which results in traffic. Once the site visitor is there, they decide for themselves if they like the user platform or not.

    What really saddens me, is that many of you waste your energy on bitching and complaining, and spend way too much time on the boards, instead of focusing on your own business, and what you need to do to make some $. Yes $ can still be made.

    Unlike the fools that post private email and chat communications on the boards, or like to air their personal or business problems that they have with others in this industry, I have resisted the urge to divulge the issues that should not exist between JFK and myself.


    Below you will find an edited post that JFK decided to publish on another board known as SC. The unedited version can be at post #167 on the SC board at http://www._____________.com/showthr...629#post310629



    Quote Originally Posted by JFK
    You guys are NOTHING but a cheap fucking copycat of FUBAR, ....

    You guys have copied all the marketing methods we have done for years. ....

    I would not be so proud of that!! STOP using my name to sell your ads for 1/2 price you're not worth anywhere near that !!



    "A few years ago you were politely told at Cybernet Expo to back off the threats, and that any photos taken at webmaster gatherings, were for the radio station, and that as such we were not intending to compete for your audience or advertisers.

    I told you then if you continue the threats, I would open a site to complete in the marketplace. You continued to bully people Julius, and I have kept my promise. I was patient with you for 4+ years.

    The only three things we have in common is that we both speak HU, both attend webmaster gatherings, and we both provide photo coverage using a pro camera.

    The comparison stops there. NALEM and Fubarwebmasters are worlds apart in the user experience and advertising channels it offers its clients.

    People closest to you have already told me about your horrible demeanor. I had assumed it was only towards us. You really are a sorry POS. For 5 years I reached out to shake your hands and say hello everytime we crossed paths. Putting aside your attitude with us, I scored you the box lunch for the golf tournament at TPF, when I saw your golf cart didnt have one. I dont recall you saying thank you, but then again that is not your style.

    I can afford to risk NALEM to the winds of change. Can you say that about your site. You will cause your own self destruction, though I wholeheartedly dont wish that upon you, because I know there is room for several photographers, and you must support your family.

    Thank you for your explosive moment here Julius. I think I will have my worker repost it to all the boards, just like we do with the event coverage. I will take heat for it, and your friends will help fuel the fire. Time will tell how things play out.

    All the best,

    Alex


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    Quote Originally Posted by NALEM View Post

    What really saddens me, is that many of you waste your energy on bitching and complaining, and spend way too much time on the boards, instead of focusing on your own business, and what you need to do to make some $. Yes $ can still be made.
    Your very right there. OH MY GOD! I've been saying that for almost 2 years now. That's why I don't go on some of the forums or support them anymore. It's the "board whores" who stay on there day in and day out that complain "I'm not making money" that don't make money.

    Now, before I'm attacked....
    There's guys who go on some forums and ALWAYS have something to bitch about. I can think of a few off hand. They always have something to bitch about. One guy bitched up a storm about Jake Cruise being in so many movies. SO WHAT! That's their niche! If you don't like it, don't promote it. Those are the ones who don't make money.
    Those who go on the boards like some of us and ask for input, suggestions, creatives, ideas, etc. Those guys are who are going to be in it for the long haul! Like um.. J. Maxx (GayPornVidTube.com on GWW). (Hope it's okay to use as a reference).

    But it's one thing to bitch about everything and why your not making money with this or that. Or attack others for their questions. And it's another to ask for help.

    This industry is NOT drained yet. It's still a bit far from it. And even though there's pirate sites out there, many have given up. Just because there's porn out there doesn't mean they still won't buy porn.

    President Obama spoke yesterday on CNN about the Industry's Pornography "Crisis" and he said, "Pornography has migrated from a need to a necessity, I believe in support of the porn industry. Viewing porn is better than raping someone" He probably won't be re-elected because of that, but I was excited to hear a president say that. The first president of the United States EVER!

    Anyways, your very right.........................

    Secondly, don't let people get to you. I let people get under my skin all the time at first. I've decided F-U! In my eyes, they're losing my traffic and it doesn't bother me because there's other programs to promote. If people go that far out of their way to attack you. Screw them! Write them off! Ignore them! They are jealous!

    Your going out of YOUR way to cover things such as what you do. I personally don't get exactly what your doing and how you will benefit from it. But I congrat you on all of your work.

    Don't let them get to you. Take what they've said as a mind frame of, "So what, I'm glad someone took the time out of their day to send that to me. I'm actually proud that they thought hard enough of me to send that."

    Keep up the great work


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    PFLJayden, I normally dont post here myself but my gal Yan does. I saw the thread response email, and decided to personally respond. I agree with you 110% and its not because your backing me up on this.

    Would you be willing to email me at alex@nalem.com ?

    I actually want to reach out to you on another matter, one that is positive.

    Thanks,

    Alex


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    Quote Originally Posted by NALEM View Post
    PFLJayden, I normally dont post here myself but my gal Yan does. I saw the thread response email, and decided to personally respond. I agree with you 110% and its not because your backing me up on this.

    Would you be willing to email me at alex@nalem.com ?

    I actually want to reach out to you on another matter, one that is positive.

    Thanks,

    Alex
    Do me a favor. E-mail me amad (at) amadvideos.com and I'll reply to it first thing in the morning. I already closed up my email and everything and I had this open, decided to refresh it for some reason but was a good outcome.

    Shoot me an email... I'll be back in at 9AM (PST). It's 3:30AM now (back in 5.5 hours 4 hours of sleep As soon as I get in I promise you, I'll reply!!!

    Talk to ya soon Alex!


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    Okay, I don't get it. Bitching about people bitching...

    Forums are for discussion, that's why I can never understand the attitude of others complaining about a discussion. If you don't like it, just don't read it or respond to it!

    We all have opinions, just because an opinion is different to yours does not make the discussion any less valuable.
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