As gaywebmasters, are you less likely to promote a site that contains violence (like an edgy bondage/hostage/rape site) than a "normal" fetish site?

I recently was told by an affiliate that some of our spanking videos were too "violent for them to promote, and that since some of our story lines promote violence on gays that they were not going to promote us. I was wondering what your general take on this is?

(The story line in question was one called "Lunch Money" where a Jock harrasses an younger gay kid for his lunch money, then spanks him to humiliate him.)

The reason I ask is that we are looking to expand from spanking into more edgy bondage, etc.