I started a dating site for mature men and bears and its starting to get a few of members.

I've always hung out in these circles and have made friends so some people know my face and real name. But on my site I use a stage name as the webmaster.
And I want to start doing promotions at bars and sponsoring some events, which means mingling with people, some who know me already and some who dont.

But its kind of weird using 2 different names with someone depending on where Im talking to them.

So I ask you, is using a fictitious name a MUST, or is it no big deal?

I just dont want a member who turns out to be a psycho and finds out my personal info and decides to fuck with me.

So do you all use a stage name when dealing with your members/customers?