Same here, Lee... conversation is a total turn on for me

I'd love to date somebody and not see him during that date - like in one of those restaurants where it's pitch black, no lights at all, you eat in darkness, drink and talk (like bling people do). If after that dinner you still have something to talk about its great - if not... oh well

1) Cute guys attract my attention - but I tend to forget them as soon as
they pass by - like the interchancable cover models on the magazines.

2) Then there are guys _I_ put my attention to (different from above!) are somewhat older - like 30/35, handsome looking, havent shaved for a couple days... the memory lasts slightly longer than (1)

3) Guys who stick out form the surrounding group get special attention - like a guy in the midst of a gucci and prada teeny groud - like DonMike or Jason in the midst of models.
Then if that type of guy can hold a conversation it's great and it made my day and I think about them a lot cuz they touched me. I am attracted to guys who can talk about general stuff, experiences and things they learned and not just about gucci, D&G and the newest styles. On a first date a conversation about global politics or religious things is well possible if it drifts into that direction.
It does not attract or affect me if somebody is a CEO, a multimillionaire, unemployed, employed, famous, influential or whatever shit - I care for the person. A turn off however is something like "I am a well paid doctor and I would like to meet you".

4) the type of guy I would have sex with? I dunno - I can't tell. Its something I decide when it's time for a decision - he might be older, younger, better looking, more uhm.... yeah - I have to special type of guy for that BUT guys of (1) and (2) would never make it.

so - nuff confusion