eh...that's not eye candy imo. I figured at these parties they had some REALLY hot guys (you know, REAL men, Andy Dill kinda guys), naked or almost naked, serving drinks or something. Not average, shaved, dime a dozen "star tattoo" guys looking bored with each other but fucking anyway, in front of a large group of people no less. Sounds wierd and ackward, for everyone, to me.

I thought, considering gay men and women are behind these events, they would be all about sensuality and atmosphere, not just cock and ass.

Did I get the wrong impression? It all just seems so...straight!