Given that NON adult folk usually don't know intimate terms/jargon for certain lifestyles, it would make sense that adult webmasters have to learn it also. I know I spend a considerable amount of time checking into correct terminology as it matters to me that a gallery or website "walks the walk, and talks the talk" ... but there are many who don't and it shows in the sites they build. As for the bi-curious surfer ... only through exposure to the gay sites we build will they "learn" what various terms mean and how it applies to the lifestyle... and for that reason it IS important that we're accurate in the pictures we choose and the descriptions we apply to our content.