I love verbal talk (both ways). I think it makes sex a lot more enjoyable to get the head involved... not just the body. Finding those mental buttons and pushing them hard is half the fun. Being a :jasun:, usually the dirtier the better. Heh.

It depends on the partners too. My BF is an archetype "daddy" and I'm more bottom than top. We don't do any funky roleplay, but he can call me "boy" and talk nasty and it'll do the trick every time. It wouldn't work with just anybody.