I can honestly say that, after living in Los Angeles for four years, I have finally cultivated a new attraction to Asian guys. But I'm also VERY picky about ALL men, no matter what color skin they have.

I can't just be attracted to a guy because he's Asian, or because he's black or Latino, or even because he's hairy or masculine, which are two traits I really like in a guy. For me, it's all about the personality and what you can find when you look in their eyes. So I don't know if I'm a really good person to answer this question for you.

But what I DO like about Asian guys specifically is that they have a very exotic look to them, which is why most guys I know who prefer black and Latino go after them. It's that "something different."

I am honestly color blind when it comes to guys, but regardless of what color you are, you have to have that something special--and rather specific--for me to be into you. Masculinity is usually a must, but as I've said before, I am also now finding myself attracted to guys who aren't as butch or as rough-and-tumble or as hairy as I thought I liked.

It's funny, but as I get older, I find that more and more of my preferences are going out the window. I no longer have any requirements for what I'm attracted to, and I thought I did. And I love it. I'm finally growing up. I only wish the rest of the narrow-minded gay community would wake up and do the same. I think we are missing out on so many opportunities when we have such specific preferences. Picky is good, but too picky is not. But I totally digress!

Anyway, back to Asians. There's also something very quiet and reserved about them. And they are very respectful of others. The men there are taught to bow to each other in show of respect. Most of the Asian guys I know here are very respectful as well.

Does anyone remember that BEAUTIFUL Asian guy in Karate Kid 2? The one Daniel went up against in the show-down? Fuck, he was SOOOOO fucking hot. I used to have such a crush on him when I was a kid. And the guy on Lost is pretty hot too. Jin. Yummy.