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    Here's how I look at it:

    We setup the situation

    We hire the models

    We distribute the content

    If you had a group of guys that wanted to put one bullet in a gun and have you film what happens as they pull the trigger, would you?

    That's what you're doing when you film bareback. Period. Unless you test extensively before hand, and even then that's not safe.

    People bareback for many reasons, but the main reason is that they're HIV positive already and have nothing to lose. Remember that.


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    I guess millions of gay men like seeing the "bang" because that's what they want and that's where the demand is. Go figure.
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    Well...

    So pretent that what you don't see or can't find online doesn't happen in REAL life...PLEASE

    IT DOES HAPPEN...

    EVERY DAY IN EVERY CITY OF THE WORLD...

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    Ethics?

    Oh Chip,

    The "major" studios have "ethics" because the can still make money...wait until they can't and then you will find them shooting bareback videos every week my friend! They are in it for the MONEY just like we all are...BUSINESS!

    There are no "ethics". That is like morals...who is to say what is ethical or moral...you...me...or GOD? No...

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    if money determines your ethics, they ain't ethics.

    ethics are what keep you from stealing from your neighbor when he forgets to lock his door. i wouldn't, not even if i was 100% sure that i would never get caught and i was totally broke. that's ethics.

    by the way, the way it's been explained to me, you are legally responsible if you knowingly put an hiv positive guy in that gangbang and someone comes out positive.


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    Oh right...so ethics prevent all of humans from cheating on our lovers...right...right...sorry so this stuff doesn't happen. Forgot some of you live in a perfect world. My BAD.

    In my world people cheat on their lovers...people get STDS... and even speeding tickets!

    Oh well, I guess I can sleep soundly tonight without locking my door knowing that my neighbor has ETHNICS!!

    WHATEVER...

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    Quote Originally Posted by MiamiB
    Oh right...so ethics prevent all of humans from cheating on our lovers...right...right...sorry so this stuff doesn't happen. Forgot some of you live in a perfect world. My BAD.

    In my world people cheat on their lovers...people get STDS... and even speeding tickets!

    Oh well, I guess I can sleep soundly tonight without locking my door knowing that my neighbor has ETHNICS!!

    WHATEVER...
    Your attitude sucks tonight

    You're living in fantasy land to think you can do anything in the world you want because it's being done anyway. How's that working for you?

    Or do you think more along the lines of "If they're stupid enough to do it let them"? or is it "It's a tough cruel world. I need to do what I can to get what I want and fuck everyone else"? Poor you. Nobody cares so you don't care is that it? Now THAT is fucked up.

    So how are you doing business with people? People lie in business all the time so I'll do it? Screw people over or get screwed is that it?

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    boyfunk - i have a lot of respect for you on this one. thanks for being you

    i don't live in a perfect world. i've been raped more than once, and quite violently. i've been beaten, robbed, and unknowingly given herpes. but i don't rape people or rob them or give them herpes because of this. just because someone else does something to you is not justification for you to do it - either to them or to someone else.

    whether my neighbors have ethics doesn't dictate MY ethics. i'm responsible for my own choices and decisions - whether my lover cheats on me has nothing to do with whether i cheat on my lover.

    besides, if everyone took your attitude, the world would be an even worse place. it's the people who keep trying that keep it all from being a jungle.

    Quote Originally Posted by MiamiB
    Oh right...so ethics prevent all of humans from cheating on our lovers...right...right...sorry so this stuff doesn't happen. Forgot some of you live in a perfect world. My BAD.

    In my world people cheat on their lovers...people get STDS... and even speeding tickets!

    Oh well, I guess I can sleep soundly tonight without locking my door knowing that my neighbor has ETHNICS!!

    WHATEVER...

    Lee

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    Quote Originally Posted by MiamiB
    So pretent that what you don't see or can't find online doesn't happen in REAL life...PLEASE

    IT DOES HAPPEN...

    EVERY DAY IN EVERY CITY OF THE WORLD...
    Yeah people contract HIV/AIDS every day that doesn't mean I want to be a part of it.

    Being a responsible producer has nothing to do with pretending, it has to do with reality. If you feel "all the money" is in filming bareback you're wrong. The money is in quality content.

    The reality is when you hook people up and pay them to have sex, you are a part of the equation. There is also a liability issue with any model that comes back and says they were depressed, or just broke up with their boyfriend, did bareback sex for X amount of money, and now have HIV. In case you haven't noticed, talent does sue the production company.

    If you're gonna do it, you need to be very careful, if you're not, you will lose more money in the end then you make and you'll be a part of someone getting HIV.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Huskyhunks
    I guess millions of gay men like seeing the "bang" because that's what they want and that's where the demand is. Go figure.

    There's a shitload of people that want to see child porn too. If it were legal, would you film that?


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    Now way dude...

    No, I would not. I stated that concenting adults were making these choices. Period.

    They know the risks. Nothing is going to change by pretending it doesn't happen.

    It still will happen.

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    Quote Originally Posted by boyfunk
    There's a shitload of people that want to see child porn too. If it were legal, would you film that?
    Well technically it is legal in other countries Chip... so according to MiamiB he'd do it.. because it's being done anyway :francais: Or if he's going the consenting adults route he'd say snuff films are his thing.. because it's going to happen anyway... unless by some strange miracle.. he has ETHICS and wouldn't do that..hhhmmmm


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    If you are going to shoot bareback, it is my belief that the following two rules must be in play.....

    1. Models should not be required to bareback to get the job.

    2. They should not be paid less money if they choose not to.

    This completely eliminates the possibility of models taking bareback jobs only because they can't find any other work.

    If you stand by those two things, then all bareback models will have made a decision to bareback that didn't involve money. Which means they are either a longtime couple who has been barebacking for some time, or two random models who'd bareback anyway even if the camera wasn't there.
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    Forget it!

    I made these remarks hours ago and I guess I pissed off a few people...

    Reality might be stupid but high risk sex is going on right now as I type this and censoring it from the internet and websites is NOT going to STOP it! In fact, it might make those who are curious seek it out in REAL LIFE instead of being satisfied with seeing on a video or website.

    They decided to attack me and my websites all because I entered into a topic and expressed thoughts that they did NOT agree with. Is that the way this forum is supposed to work?

    Is that they way free speech is supposed to work? I think not.

    I am not going to comment further except to say that it I am sure there are others who would love to voice their views but they know this will happen to them so why bother.

    I for one will not bother again. Simply not worth it.
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    If you read back to the beginning of my first post on this thread, I said that each person must make their own choice.

    Yes, of course there are people barebacking who don't care, or assume they'll be lucky, or they think they have some magical way of staying negative. What people do on their own time is their business... EXCEPT when they lie or deceive others, such as when a positive person has sex with another person and lies or omits the fact that he is positive. In California, that's a felony.

    But just because there are dumbasses who are reckless, or people with self esteem problems that for whatever reason don't feel comfortable asking the other person about being safe, or kids that assume they're invincible, that doesn't mean that we as an industry can use that as a carte blanche excuse to make it OK to further perpetrate the idea that barebacking is OK.

    It's really easy to say "Everybody does it, why not me?" or "These guys want to do it anyway, so I'll just let them do it and make the extra money from selling a bareback title" or "Well, it's their choice, not my business if they want to be unsafe."

    It takes integrity to say "I am in a position to influence, perhaps a lot, perhaps in only a tiny way, how the people viewing my video will think. How I choose to use the influence I have is a great responsibility, and I want to use that for more than just my own profit."

    I agree that a significant number of people in this industry appear to have little integrity... sleeping with their models as a "requirement" of the job, lying/deceiving models to get them to agree to work, encouraging unsafe behaviors, shaving affiliates... whatever that behavior might be. But just because you choose to work in an industry with many people that are less than completely ethical doesn't mean you have to also be unethical. It's certainly easier, and perhaps more profitable, to choose to ignore ethics, but that doesn't make it right.

    Some might call me unrealistic, but I believe that by treating others the way I'd like to be treated... choosing to, in my small way, try and communicate a message that helps, rather than hurts others... doing everything I can to nurture relationships with models, affiliates, sponsors, and others in which *all* parties can be financially and personally successful... I believe that ultimately, my company will be successful and grow, simply *because* people will eventually choose to do business with someone that's shown an interest in caring about something other than themselves.

    I'm far from perfect, and I don't always meet the standard I'm aiming for, but that's how I try to live my life, and how AJ and I try to conduct our business.

    I'm not saying it's the only way, and I'm not saying that people with different beliefs and ethics can't be successful. But from my perspective, it's just as Basschick said... you do the right thing because it's the right thing to do, not because you'll get caught if you don't.

    With that in mind, if you still feel there's no problem shooting bareback content, more power to you.


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