Hiya best comes!

Well as for server my first choice is www.webair.com - I work with them almost exclusively these days and they will treat you right. If you go there make SURE you tell them Gary-Alan sent you. No I don't make a commission, I just know they'll give you a little extra TLC because you came from here.

As for traffic there are a number of great ways to get traffic. My first pass would be to hit the link list, directories and such... you can find a fairly large list in our resources at http://www.gaywidewebmasters.com/Traffic_Sites/

Do you have free gallery or tgp sites built to send your own traffic to your pay site? If not, start making them. If you do, GREAT!

If I may ask... do you have an acquisition budget for traffic, I have one company source of HIGHLY geo targeted traffic - however there are costs involved with buying that traffic. Let me know, either here or in email (garyalan@gaywidewebmasters.com) and perhaps I can point you in there direction.

Best of luck with the site! I know how anxious and excited I was opening my first paysite!

Again, best of luck!

Gary-Alan