I have to agree with Basschick on this one. Being that I've done, or know people who are into, many of the "weird" things (LOL) that have been given in this thread, I can tell you it's not going to help anything. I don't know how many times I've gone looking for a site that says it's into one thing and then there is nothing at all on the site for the keywords I was searching for. If I'm looking for bears and you send me to a twink site, do you really think I'm going to say "hey, those twinks are kinda sexy too". Um... hardly. I'm not critisizing here, I don't know the details of what you are planning on doing, just wanted to give a little food for thought.

Oh, and the thing about sounding... Yes, you need lube, but it must be sterile lube. You should really only do it with someone who has experience. If not done properly it can cause a nasty infection. Yikes! I did it once and was not crazy about it, but I know people who just love it. I always say, I'll try anything once... twice if I don't like it. So I guess I need to try it again sometime.