Maybe, or maybe we're just more savvy and know of places to go online to hook up. Craigslist m4m hookups areas are rocking and those are free.
Manhunt is only $10 a month and you can search for the guy you want and hook up for real sex, as many times as you want. And m4m4sex.

I'm convinved that hooking up with guys online is a big reasons why the gay bars arent as busy anymore as they used to be

I personally buy porn online but only pay per view theaters, so I know exactly what Im getting and only pay for exactly what I watch.
I very rarely sign up for paysite memberships anymore, unless there a guy on the tour who fits EXACTLY what I want and trips a trigger in me.