when no issues are present, you have a pleasant overall way of talking. you're casual, which feels friendly. also don mike thinks you're cute

no mud was thrown at you, however. when an entire group of people are all saying the same thing, perhaps it's a wakeup call and not a defamation attempt. people here want to like you. if you can stop seeing attacks where there are none, stop labeling or judging others and get honest about your business, i think you could become a valued community member.