most of the gay men i know don't want their straight guys to leave that door a little open. a guy who seems like he just might be available isn't making himself unattainable and he won't trigger those conquering urges.

check out some of the comments from last year about fucking straight guys - getting them to do it was a major challenge and an accomplishment. a guy who smiles and winks at you isn't going to seem like much of a challenge