I just hate being labeled as a gay man.... There are too many of them out there....like the stereotypes... though I do end up falling into a lot of them like liking musical theater and such...but I don't appreciate them because I am gay, I appreciate them because they are great works of art.

I also hate it when my...well used to before I got engaged...when my girlfriends tried to hook me up with guys just because they were gay and never really paid attention to my style of guys...just thought that since he was a gay man, I would be interested in him.... hell most gay men I am just irritated by... guess thats why I like the fetish community so much... plenty of hot switch flipping men and the hubby doesn't mind what i do with them...as long as he can watch....one day i will actually excercise this privilive:develish: