Quote Originally Posted by Paco
I am sure you'll agree with me when I say, taking it is the easy part!
Watching someone receive is a little different, especially if/when you have a feeling or more for the person.
I don't know, if someone I care about is getting flogged or whipped, or any kind of intense play really, and I know they love it, then I get really excited watching them take it.

I was at this BDSM retreat once and was doing this really cool thing called Sensory Input, where I was wrapped up in a leather sleepsack (bodybag) so I could not move, I had these goggles on that flashed lights so as to put me into a very relaxed state, soft music was playing and my friend would use the violet wand (electro stimulation) all over my head and feet, and just when I would be writhing around he's stop and let me just sort of mentally float away for a bit, then he would start up again, bringing me back to earth with all the little electrical shocks. We did this over and over until I was really floating in my happy place. So when he was done he crawled into bed and held me and we just talked and cuddled for a while, it was really warm and nice.

Then, all of a sudden, there was this bloodcurdling scream right outside the hotel room door. I recognized it as my friend Nichole who was getting a caning. Now, if you've ever seen a caning happen, they are very intense. But rather than feel shock or worry, I just looked up at my friend, smiled and said "oh, Nichole". Because I knew that this was what she wanted. She was going on her own jouney. When it was over and she was able to compose herself she ran around happily showing everyone the marks.

I do know some people who can't watch heavy play, but as long as I know the person is getting what they desire, I'm really happy for them.

Oh, and I really don't like whips, I prefer the flogger.