I have treied a multitude of dating software solutions ... Dating Pro (what a Mess!) and a few others. Even the "Pro" versions suck when it comes to modifying the heterosexist foundation. I've recently looked at OS Date and will be trying it with a lesbian dataing site shortly. The changes are fairly easy.

You can look at allabouthealthyrelationships dot com and couplesdelite dot com as two examples of a PRO solution that costs money. With couplesdelite I spent even more money to modify the program.

Good luck!

Aaron